I know he loves me. He tells me how beautiful I am and how much I mean to him, but why does he constantly comment other girls? He says "you look amazing" or "lookin hot" or "we definitely have to hang out, cutie" all that stuff :/ I feel like he might even message them on myspace, that way I can't see what they're saying? I don't understand why he comments all of them and it makes me feel really bad. I just happen to look at peoples Myspace and there's a comment from my boyfriend: "Your hot"
Do I have a right to be jealous? What should I do :/ Thanks
2007-02-03 09:00:28 · 31 answers · asked by Victoria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is human nature in a man, u got to just overlook it.
all men do this, it is best u dont even pay it any mind.
ignore it or laugh about it.
no, dont be jealous, just do the same to him, tell good lookin
guys they are hot.
2007-02-03 09:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I'm a guy and ALL guys like to look at pretty girls(unless they are gay). Men are more visually oriented than women. A lot of guys comment on the internet because it's "safe" and doesn't hurt anyone UNLESS it is more than just a comment or is rude or obscene. Don't worry unless he is actually emailing these women. Then you should basically decide how much you trust him. A lot of girls are out there fishing for comments or a new BF so if worst comes to worse what's good for the male gander is also good for the goose.
2007-02-03 09:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by RJ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's normal for a man to find other women attractive, but it's not respectful to you for him to make those comments about other women.
Sounds like he has some growing up to do, and you have a decision to make. Do you want to be with a man that only has eyes for you, or do you want someone like your boyfriend who can't keep his eyes off of every other woman.
I'm sure you have seen attractive men, but you don't go around making comments about those men being "hot."
It's all about respect. If he wants to talk to other women and complement them, give him all the free time he needs-----leave him and find someone else who appreciates you and who will not treat you in a disrespectful fashion.
2007-02-03 09:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by Seldom Seen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know what a lot of guys do that, but it is not right. It makes you feel inadequate and it shows that he has no respect for you. What you should do is start commenting on other guys, and see how it makes him feel, next time your out in public and a cute guy walks by, say to him wow did you see the size of the bulge in that guys pants, oh my god!! he'll go nuts, and then point out that is how he makes you feel, believe me guys can dish it out but they hate to take it, take control of your life and don't be anybodies doormat, if someone makes you feel bad, let them know and if they dint stop, well then they aren't your friend and you should get away from them!!
2007-02-03 09:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sir Hard & Thick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to make you jealous or he's being a player. Tell him how you feel. If he keeps doing things like that, then you need to break up with him. I'm so sorry this is happening to you!
2007-02-03 09:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nice boyfriend. Maybe hes just good at the lines - so they dont mean anything (although think about that when he says them to you too). Honestly I wouldnt be caught with a guy like that - if Im not the hottest to you then why am I with you?
2007-02-03 09:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by radiancia 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Heck yes you should be mad. And if he tries to pull the I was just being funny card don't believe it. My recent ex had tons of those types of comments on girls pages and tons back from them on his, he said I have nothing to worry about and I shouldn't be jealous-WELL-long story short the bastard was hitting on everyone in town and saying we weren't serious and I'm pretty sure he cheated on me. Good Luck-Tell him to F#@$ off for me!
2007-02-03 09:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by dab1121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell ya he is a dumb *** and I would drop him in a hot second.. my space is soo stupid.. I mean I guess if you are young then that's what it is.. but that is just rude!! I would sooo break up with his *** and find someone that would never disrespect you like that ever! They are out there and I'm sue u will have no problem!! Good Luck.. he is a total *** hole!
2007-02-03 09:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by michelle b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG my bf does the SAME thing it mas me sooo mad he will be like o ur hot to other girls but on my pics he juss says aww look at my boo i guess ur bf is juss a flirt like mine juss make sure u let him noe it bothers u and ask him to be a lil more sensitive let me noe ho it tuns out
2007-02-03 09:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by CHELSEA B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, thats bad.....i would definately be jealous because one minute he's telling you you're beautiful then the next minute he's being a myspace player....u should like ask him why he keeps doing that(he really shouldn't comment ppl he doesn't know because he doesn't know who they really are OR if they're really hot)
2007-02-03 09:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by Princess K 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally he sounds like a player. If he is the right one, you'd be the girl who is always on his mind and he'd endlessly comment you.
Does he show public display of affection?
2007-02-03 09:04:17 · answer #11 · answered by Pristine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋