I'm a sophomore in highschool, and there's a freshman girl I saw who I want to get to know. How should I approach her for the first time?
I don't have any classes with her, and i only see her in between some classes.
In another question, I was told to smile and make eye contact when I see her in the halls, but not to freak her out.
Then later go up and say hey, or that I've been seeing her in the hallways and I had to go up to her.
Will this work?
And is there any difference between like a "friendly smile", and an "I like you smile"?
2007-02-03 08:55:52 · 11 answers · asked by Andrew 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think thats pretty good advice being your in high school...
2007-02-03 09:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by icingonthekake99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to let you know, there is no "quick answer to dealing with girls, we are all individuals." I am 20 and in college, so hopefully I can help seeing as it wasn't that long ago I was in HS.
now first off, if you are a shy guy, smiling at a girl might be a little out of the ordinary and uncomfortable for you. Go with the eye contact thing first. you need to ease into it but let her catch you looking at her (do not look at the boobs- she might just walk up and slap you in the face). she'll start to notice you are making eye contact with her and if she hasn't already completely fallen for you, this can make her feel really flatterd and beautiful. After a day or so of eye contact in classes, hall, after school, etc., start giving her a little smile when you see her. keep it natural. a day or so after that, catch her alone ( send your friends to keep others from passing by as you talk after school or to talk with her friends to keep them away.) and tell her you have been seeing her in the hall and wanted to introduce yourself. see where the conversation goes (ask her if she'd like you to walk her home if it's after school or maybe you can give her a ride) you can ask her if she's done the homework in such and such class or who she has for english or something. ask if she's seen any good movies lately. just be nice, be sweet , BE CONFIDENT, and be flattering. She won't e able to help loving you.
There is no real difference between a "friendly smile", and an "I like you smile". Even if ther was I would say go eith the friendly one till you get to know her so that you don't creep her out or seem like a perv. Don't forget. Be CONFIDENT in yourself. if she doesn't like you then you don't want to date a girl like her anyway. you are great the way you are and you DO NOT need to be some one else to get a date. and if you are a shy guy, don't be afraid to talk about yourself and to ask her questions. Women Love Conversation.
good luck!
2007-02-03 17:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by .:life:. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK. to answer your 1st ? about approaching her, I think that you should just give her a friendly smile at first and then talk to her whenever you can to get to know her and then after you flirt wit her, in the hallways you give her that other smile. And yes, most likely this will work. If a guy did it to me then I would want to know more about him. Personally, I don't really c a dif. in a "friendly smile" and a "I like you smile". You know how when i guy sees a girl he likes he smiles and nods his head up at her, well that is a "I like you smile". A friendly smile is just a simpl, plain smile to say "hi". Hope you all work out alright !!!!!
2007-02-03 17:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just be honest and say oo I seen u in the halls and I would like to get to know you better. Coming from a girl perspective she would definitely appreciate your honesty and feel really special that you decided to ask her. Might i suggest like ask her to hang out at a place not to far from school.
2007-02-03 17:03:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a good plan... and who cares about "friendly smile" and an "I like you smile". Just make sure your smile is genuine. If you try to force a "cool I like you smile " it may come across more like an " I'm a sex pervert smile ". So just give a genuine smile.
2007-02-03 17:02:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah just go up and talk to her. smile and be friendly but not too overbearing.if u do this (and if shes smart) shell kno u like her.go up to her a few times,ask her for her numbeer whne u guys feel comfortable with each other,and go on from there.shell prolly think its cool a sophomore is talking to her.
2007-02-03 17:04:52 · answer #6 · answered by ♥BermudaShortzROCK♦ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this will work. Try friendly smile, do not overdo "I like you" smile for the first contact
2007-02-03 17:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me....Im a girl... it will work...Just don't make her think u are weird by staring her down..Ask friends to get info on her...like if she has a bf..or if she is interested in u 2..But just go up and talk to her..she might like u..
2007-02-03 17:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her and say hi.
2007-02-03 17:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would work for me
2007-02-03 17:01:52 · answer #10 · answered by Maddie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋