Ok, I have posted a question already about this guy but something happened that I have a question about. Well the guy I like seams to like me but the other day he came up to me at the end of class and said "Yahha" But when he did that I started walking twords my friend. He grabed the handle of my backpack pulled me back then let go. So I kept walking but the thing is. While he was pulling me back he said "Don't alk away from me" Do you think he is aggressive or was he saying that as a joke? He sounded a little serious but he jokes around a lot. Help.
2007-02-03 08:50:39 · 14 answers · asked by GurlOnTheRoad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is the first time he has done anythig like this. He is usally so kind making little jokes always saying hi when we run in to each other unless both of us donot notice each other.
2007-02-03 09:10:45 · update #1
We are in middle school
2007-02-03 09:12:04 · update #2
I would look at his facial expression next time. If he has kind of a smile then he is joking, If he looks serios then he is an *** hole and is not joking. I HATE GUYS WHO TREAT GIRLS LIKE ****!!!!
2007-02-03 09:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to tell, especially if this is the first time he's pulled a stunt like that. Right now, give him the benefit of the doubt that he was joking, but keep it back of your head. If he starts showing a pattern of this kind of behavior, then I wouldn't have anything to do with him. And don't feel like you have to be with him just because he likes you.
Wait for someone who doesn't pull that crap. But like I said, give him the benefit of the doubt first.
2007-02-03 08:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joking or not, sound like a sure sign of aggression. Little kids do things like that when they like someone, but if they do it in high school, explain to them that you do not like being treated like that, and move on. You are a person who deserves respect and what he did was not respectful. Good luck.
2007-02-03 08:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by Raven Beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously felt that he wasn't kidding, if not you wouldn't be asking this question. This situation sounds kinda scary. He could be showing his aggressive side. "Don't walk away from me?" you probably wounded his pride also. These signs are not good.
2007-02-03 09:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by Cyndee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a big red flag to me.
In any case, why would you want to be with a guy who think it's a "joke" to manhandle you and order you around?
2007-02-03 08:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by EQ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait so you like this guy right?
then i think his just flirting, in an aggressive way.
when guys do that to me (and there like being serious) its a big turn off. (unless i like him) when he does it again play hard to get & just look at him weird.
or say, dude...stop.
if you wanna flirt back, just wait for him to do it again & laugh all girly & say "Omg stop you scared me!"
n then laugh some more.
he'll get the signal that your flirting.
if he scares you then just like say it how it is.
2007-02-03 09:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was teasing you but in an overly aggressive way. Say, "Knock it off" in a loud voice to him. He needs to find a better way to get your attention.
2007-02-03 08:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he likes to be in control but he could of been jokeing just be careful good luck
2007-02-03 08:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by lady_di298 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess only bears treat lady bears that way ... Pulling and threatening sure are aggressive ...
2007-02-03 08:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is joking but that really sounds agressive he cant joke with that things.
2007-02-03 09:07:39 · answer #10 · answered by Jorge C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋