yes their is such a thing
2007-02-03 08:47:56
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answer #1
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answered by Dr Universe 7
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I believe in love at first sight. I met my husband 18 years ago, and I knew the day I met him he was going to be the guy I would spend the rest of my life with. Sure we dated other people through the years. But when we wasn't dating we remained friends. So yes there is a such thing as love at first sight.
2007-02-03 08:51:53
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answer #2
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answered by ANGIE 3
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I'm sure you know that that is a very complicated question. Psychologists believe that love is not an emotion but a choice. If this is true then it is very possible to love some one at first sight. It is proven that there is attraction at first sight, however, it has yet to be proven that there is love at first sight. Many people not only fall in love with a person's physic, but their personality, views, outlook on life, interests, and intelect. A lot of people claim that they just can't help loving a person, that they are compelled.
Personally, I do believe in love at first sight. I do not believe that love is simply a choice. I believe that you can love many different people and that the love for each is different in type, origin, strength, and manifestation. I do believe that there is one person that we each love in the way we as individuals feel is the best way. That is what I call your true love.
I hope this helps.
2007-02-03 08:57:17
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answer #3
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answered by .:life:. 2
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Some times
2007-02-03 08:47:25
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answered by zen522 7
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No not really, but you can have a feeling about love for a person on the first meeting. The first time I saw my husband, I said to myself, Mmmmm I really want to get to know this guy! I was attracted to him like a magnet. We only dated for 4 months then whammo we were both very very much in love. Come to find out, he felt the same about me when we first met too. It was a strange feeling that I have never had about any one before on first sight. We both felt we had met before, but, we hadn't.
BTW... we weren't just kids meeting for the first time and going through a puppy love thing. We were both full blown adults, and this is the 2nd marriage for both of us. And, the last. We have both said many many times, it's too bad we didn't meet sooner in our lives. That's ok.... we are making up for lost time. We have been happily married now for 14 1/2 years now and still counting.
2007-02-03 09:01:12
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answered by Vida 6
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you dont love a person you can live with but a person you can't live without as for first sight trust me dear u can sure live without (him/her) ..although u mayb still thinkin abt them for a while but how long is it giong to b till u find some one else attracted ...
There are some feelings we have when infatuated that we don’t have when we’re feeling love. Some of the “symptoms” of infatuation are; feelings of panic, uncertainty, overpowering lust, feverish excitement, impatience, and/or jealously.
When infatuated, we are thrilled, but not happy, wanting to trust, yet suspicious. There are lingering, nagging doubts about our “partner in infatuation” and their love for us. We’re miserable when they’re away, almost like we’re not complete unless we’re with them. It’s a rush and it’s intense. It’s difficult to concentrate. And most infatuation relationships have a high degree of sexual charge around them. Somehow being with them is not complete unless in ends in some type of sexual encounter.
Do any of these “symptoms” resemble feelings of love? Hardly. So why do we become infatuated? Where does it come from? Perhaps it’s biological.
When infatuated we experience a surge of dopamine that rushes through the brain causing us to feel good. Norepinephrine flows through the brain stimulating production of adrenaline (pounding heart). Phenylethalimine (found in chocolate) creates a feeling of bliss. Irrational romantic sentiments may be caused by oxytocin, a primary sexual arousal hormone that signals orgasm and feelings of emotional attachment. Together these chemicals sometimes override the brain activity that governs logic.
The body can build up tolerances to these chemicals so it takes more of the substance to get that special feeling of infatuation. People who jump from relationship to relationship may be craving the intoxicating effects of these substances and may be “infatuation junkies”.
When the chemical flood dries up, the relationship either moves into a loving romantic one or there is disillusionment, and the relationship ends.
2007-02-03 08:50:22
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answered by Anonymous
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my husband could tell u. me im not so sure because u have to get to no a person first to see who they really are. some ppl may be able to love some 1 on sight. maybe its just lust at first sight. ive been there.
2007-02-03 08:49:06
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answered by emilybailey1980 3
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There's such thing as an initial attraction. I think that you can't really detemine the way you feel about someone completely until you actually talk to them.
2007-02-03 08:48:33
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answered by Anonymous
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No, think about what love really is, love is putting up with all the bad things about a person, you really can't love someone till you get to know them, so really it is lust at first sight, we see some one and some thing about them makes us want to get to know them, that is not love, that's lust, love is finding out that this person sits and smells his own farts, but you don't care you still want to be with him, that's love, or your man loves to have you stick a finger in his bu tt when you have s e x, but you do it cause it makes him feel good, that's love, but if you saw a guy for the first time and he walked up to you and started talking to you and said, i like to have a finger stuck up my butt during s e x, you would think he was Chester the molester and run like hell, see what i mean? we fall in lust, then we get know someone and then we fall in love!! good luck you have to go through many oysters before you find a pearl, but have fun looking!!
2007-02-03 09:02:03
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answered by Sir Hard & Thick 2
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I think not, what a person is experiencing is infatuation. Love takes time to blossom, it just does not happen right away, at first sight, regardless of how hard you try to rationalize this to be true.
2007-02-03 08:49:15
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answered by WC 7
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YES I saw this boy in my class for the first time and Ive loved him ever since dont listen to people who say otherwise.
2007-02-03 08:51:18
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answered by Anonymous
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