me and this guy who live far apart text like everyday. he was so into talking 2 me and always told me i was beautiful and that he liked me...but lately he hasnt been texting me and i keep texting him and he never texts back...and i have to talk to him so i text him again and again. i no im not playing very hard to get but i cant help it.
wats up with him and if i do play hard to get will he maybe become more interested??
bc i no people like the chase......
???
2007-02-03 08:43:34 · 14 answers · asked by brunnetebabee89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all i can say is that i SEE now this guys a real asshole
im over him
and i can say that truthfully
for the first time in 2 whole years!
wahoo
2007-02-05 12:49:41 · update #1
I'm going through something similar to what you're saying...
the beginning of a relationship it's all about talking and attention for you because he is still getting to know you...
after all the fun is gone, he either lost his interest while you just started because women start having interest after knowing the guy not before! or he is still tuned to you but the real him is this new guy who is not very affectionate...
good luck anyways..
2007-02-03 08:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to say why he hasn't texted you. Did he say anything leading up to his absense, any clues at all? How about you? Did you bring up a touchy or scary subject. Like "I love you, I need you, I can't live without you!" Maybe he is just busy or playing hard to get himself. Either way, I am certain that you are better off to play it cool. If he doesn't want to contact you, he wont. If you pursue him relentlessly, he will lose interest faster and simply turn off his phone. However if you make yourself scarce he will wonder what happened to you. Trust me, resist the temptation to text or call or write him a letter (unless you aren't going to send it) Trust me on this one, i know.
2007-02-03 17:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by The Real Deal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships never work because people can never react to each other. For instances of touching,holding,helping each other in times of distress. Only some one close gives you a place in their lives. Absence doesn't make the heart grow fonder it makes an open space that the tide of this world fill in the holes.
2007-02-03 16:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by riverwalker24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never mentioned if you met this guy face to face. There could be numerous reasons why he stopped texting you. Moved, found another girl (or guy), accident. It's hard to say. I suggest texting him once a week without sounding desperate.
2007-02-03 16:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by Raven Beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should probably stop texting him all the time if he's not responding. Try and play hard to get for a while. If you leave it alone for a week and he hasn't responded, he's probably moved on.
2007-02-03 16:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Either he is not getting the messages or he is blowing you off! I mean that in a nice way. You should try talking to him on the phone instead of texting! ...or arrange to see him in person!
2007-02-03 16:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by 80srock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, there's something about hard to get that works. Quit texting him and let him chase you.
2007-02-03 16:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him chase you and stop texting him
2007-02-03 18:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by xeibeg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he dont seem to be interested he just dont want to hurt your feelings or you could try leaving him alone and if he does care he will start wondering about you and he will call if not then move on girl.
2007-02-03 16:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by lady_di298 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find something else to do instead of texting continuously ...
2007-02-03 16:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋