please be detailed in your story. i will greatly appreciate it if you can go into as much detail as you can about making the ex that dump you come back to you.
2007-02-03 08:42:55 · 24 answers · asked by leyna h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't bother. If somebody doesn't appreciate you for who you are they've done you a favour by ending it. It might hurt a bit at the moment but you'll get over it quicker by thinking about all the bad things about your ex. Take your time and find somebody else but stop thinking of a way to get him/ her back. Once your over him/ her you'll find somebody else and hopefully you'll find happiness too. That will probably be the time when your ex sees you out with somebody else. Sees you happy and feels jealous of your happiness and will want you back but by then you'll know know you've moved on.
Don't be bitter about it. The fact that you asked this question is a good indicator as to why you may have got dumped. We've all been dumped at some time. It's always done me a favour when I was dumped in the past despite the temporary pain.
If it makes you feel any better, sometimes it hurts to do the dumping too. It just hurts that it didn't work out.
Let it go.
2007-02-03 08:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. She soon realised the dork who she dumped me for was a total control freak and then kept telling me how wonderful I was after that.
I didn't take her back and have vowed to stay single as all women want to see if there is something better out there and they usually end up with exactly what they don't want and come crawling back to the guy they dumped.
2007-02-03 08:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by footynutguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you've been dumped the best way to make your ex regret dumping you would be to get over it quickly. And the next time you run into your ex, you should have someone of the opposite sex with you to make your ex jealous.
2007-02-03 08:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2014-05-23 09:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes...& he's still begging me to start agan :-). But before I tell all your message sounds as if you want them back. Just remember if they've done it once they're do it again, & that covers everything from hurting you to lie and betrayal.
Ok - well met man, fell in love, got married, had baby, he had affair, I found out, he's lost everything, his life has gone from bad to worse and then to worse again & again & again. Just over a year later, I have house, lovely little boy, my happiness and sanity back, and a new, financially secure, career. He has a bedsit, unemployment and illhealth. It hasn't been easy, and lone parenting isn't, and it hasn't been nice at times. I've never stopped him seeing our son, and I've not really been nasty. But each time he sees me he knows what he's lost, and as my life improves, and I do that for me, he realises how awful his has become.
Concentrate on yourself and what you can achieve, don't wollow in loss that doesn't really exist.
Good luck whatever.
2007-02-03 09:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by bengimog 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/C4dEa
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-22 09:51:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man is a coward, it does not matter the titles he puts after his name, he is still a coward and you should be very grateful and happy he is out of your life. I understand your frustration, happened to me more than once. What we needed was closure, a simple answer to "why" would have been sufficient but those type of snakes only live under their own rock with no concern about others' feelings. If what you have on your phone screen is not working, then try this, "better than me is the soil and I walk on it". Meditate on it.
2016-03-15 05:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why waste your time and energy on this? Greive, vent your frustrations in a diary or write a letter to him but don't send it.... Have some dignity.... PERLEASE
There is light at the end of the tunnel, although you may not think this at the moment.
Thousands of us have gone through it and come out the otherside. Try to keep yourself busy, join an evening class, start going to the gym, make time for your friends etc.
Good luck....
2007-02-03 08:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by Warmnjuicy 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First thing let it go, because there is the right person out there for you. If he loves you than he'll be back on his own, At which time you may not even want him back. See the cards dealt to us in life don't always make sense at the time, but as time goes on it does. I know this probably isn't what you wanted to here, but just being honest.
2007-02-03 08:51:21 · answer #9 · answered by russell c 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-06 05:59:20 · answer #10 · answered by Gene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋