ok so he wanted to take a break cause he is grounded... and then toook my name off his profile and changed his status to single... so i prety much figured he wanted to breka up with me so i just accepted it. so then he reads my myspace or whatever and some guy comments me saying ic ant wait to hang out with you tonight hottie or something and then he texted me when he saw it i guess and hes like " why are you letting him write that comment.. thats really not cool"
and i said .. "i thought ur phone was taking away? and arent we on a "break"?
and hes like "so you are going to hook up wiht him? wow i never said i didnt like you i like you so much it isnt funny"
and then he called me but he couldnt talk long cause his mom got home and he didnt want to get even more grounded but he sid he would call back which he didnt YET...
and then later i check his myspace and he left a comment to a girl saying "u two better be speding the night"
he said it was a joke though...
idont get this
2007-02-03 08:42:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl,
Take charge and stop the joking around. It is not funny and if you accept it now, dude will be doing you like that for the rest of your dating time. He did not think you would be moving right along. Keep moving right along and continue with the guy who finds you interesting. Too many young ladies wait and wait and wait and are put on hold while the guy test other lillies in other fields. Stay with the gardener who is pruning your leaves and fertilizing your soil. The garden where you are blooming is fenced in as far as he is concerned!
You have done the right thing. Mommy grounded him and now you ground him permanently.
If he is the violent type be careful and get professional help o.k.
Other than that keep moving in the direction you started with the new guy.
2007-02-03 08:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to tell him that you don't have time for his childish games and move on. He sounds way to controlling, and if he calls you asking about what other guys write to you tell him it is none of his business and that if you wanted him to know you would tell him. Just remind him that he wanted the brake which means he wanted to see other people. Further advice anytime someone says that they want a brake you need to tell them that is an all or nothing. As hard as it might be you need to move on with your life and find some that truly cares for you. Good Luck and don't settle and let him make all the rules in your relationship.
2007-02-03 08:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by Amy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already accepted the break up. He changed his status to single!!! He wants to be free but wants you to be waiting for him. Not fair. He's playing games with you. Do you really want that?
2007-02-03 08:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by tepjoule 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am really sorry he is doing that to you....mayb he doesn't like u anymore.... or just trying to avoid u or something.....maybe he found a different girl...but just try to keep it in a possitive way...... just find someone else 2 go out w/...tons of fish in the sea......SORRY bout that i sort went through the same thing. he should just talk 2 u bout it...
2007-02-03 08:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well first off he is just wanting you to wait for him so that if he gets hurt you are there for him.It is not fair to you.so if i were you i would just move on if he is going to act like that
2007-02-03 08:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by Ally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is typical of a guy, they want their cake and eat it too.
so be careful, its a dog eat dog world, he flirt, u flirt too then.
2007-02-03 08:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋