This is someone I've been talking to online so it's our first face-to-face meeting for lunch. Any suggestions will be appreciated!
2007-02-03 08:37:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
easy, you don't. I always get nervous. First date with my boyfriend I tripped and fell, I rambled and talked wildly with my hands because I was so nervous, but he thought it was cute and asked me out again. so don't worry. you'll be great! good luck!
2007-02-03 08:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by ShaLaLaLaLaLaMyOhMy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not consider myself an old lady ... However, if you really like the guy there is no way to get really calm. As for the appearance of calmness from the outside while you have butterflies in the stomach on the inside ... well ... practice makes perfect ...
2007-02-03 16:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and realize the faster you can be yourself, the faster you can connect. If they don't like who you are after you quit trying to be perfect then they don't like you period. Why prolong the agony? The other person is more than likely as nervous as you, so the more relaxed you are, the more they will appreciate your allowing them to be at ease.
2007-02-03 16:41:45 · answer #3 · answered by whozethere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax
2007-02-03 16:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most important: Give yourself plenty of time to get ready for the date so you don't have to rush. Take a nice relaxing bath, listen to music, and have a glass of wine!
2007-02-03 16:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go into it with no expectations. think of him/her as an old friend that u have known forever. pretend like its a thing for work and u have to meet someone then eventually be casual. do stress its no big deal i met many ppl offline
2007-02-03 16:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by Angelina A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself! The guy she met online this time with a smile to greet her. Trust me she is nervous too. You will do great!!
2007-02-03 16:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by S.A.H.M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would listen to some slow,calming music.hes prolly nervous too,so dont worry about it.just be urself and have a fun time.good luck!!!
2007-02-03 16:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by ♥BermudaShortzROCK♦ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a couple of shots.
Wash down with a wine cooler.
He won't know.
2007-02-03 16:57:57 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, just relax and pretend u knew him all your life.
2007-02-03 16:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋