I met this girl about 3 months ago. And she is the most wonderful thing that has happened to me in some time. I feel greatful that I have her as a friend. And wonder if more could be possible. The only barrier is that she is about to get married. And she has also mentioned that she is getting real real close to me. Am I doing the wrong thing?
2007-02-03 08:36:54 · 12 answers · asked by Karan K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can't help who you love. but it is wrong to step in the way of someone she loves. maybe she's just getting close to you as a best friend. someone she can go complain to when her future husband is getting on her nerves, or want that guy opinion on something.
2007-02-03 08:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by ShaLaLaLaLaLaMyOhMy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one.no rights or wrongs.
If I were you I'd lay low & be a friend only. If she's about to get married, she's the one that needs to decide.
You could ask her if she really wants to get married, tell her how you feel & say if you want to marry this man, I think it's best that I remove myself from your life. Let her go....Wish her well.
If she feels the same way, she'll miss you & decide she wants a life with you. If she marries go on your way. I know many couples that got together later on after failed relationships.
You've know her 3 mos, no that long. Trust that the right outcome will take place.
Good Luck
2007-02-03 08:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by ♣Hey jude♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although you are doing the wrong thing by courting someone who is engaged to someone else I am also concerned with the fact that she seems interested in you. I would have a good chat with her and sort things out. It would not be wrong if she decided to break up her engagement to be with you. After all, if she is not married she is still free to change her mind.
As I said, you need to have a chat with this gal. She is either going to marry her fiance or she will be with you. If you really want her, then it is your duty to say something or risk losing her.
Mr. M on "about to get married."
2007-02-03 08:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could get in trouble with that. She is not married, yet! So she is fair game. ...but you are messing with someone elses relationship. Someone is going to get hurt. If she likes you and is sincere about it, you better resolve that before she gets married.
2007-02-03 08:40:52 · answer #4 · answered by 80srock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both headed for big trouble. You need to be honest with each other. If she has feelings for you, she needs to end her engagement. Otherwise you need to go your separate ways.
2007-02-03 08:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can't be wrong.
But you're still in big trouble.
Talk to her, there are almost no chances , but still you have to talk to her. if you do you won't wonder later "WHAT IF?"
Good luck
2007-02-03 08:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her.
But do not hope for anything to come out of it
2007-02-03 08:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it totally wrong you already know that.
2007-02-03 08:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by keda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey
you know thereis rule from 2000 ''every thing fair in love and war''
and you are in love
2007-02-03 08:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by sunny p 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im not sure... if shes getting married thats really a low chance shes in love w/ u.....but who knows.... just talk 2 her bout it............
2007-02-03 08:41:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋