Ive been told i should tell my ex how i feel and i think the best way is to tell him in an email. we broke up over 4months ago and we never talk. hes always on my mind and i feel like i should tell him how i feel because im still in love with him. so the thing i guess im worried about is if by tellin him how i feel i might annoy him and push him farther away. ive already written the email and im just wonderin if its a good idea to send it. so should i send it? and if anyone can give me any useful advice on this i would really appreciate it.
i also have a problem with talkin to him, i mean i would probably be so nervous i would cry. and i wouldnt know wat to say. any advice on wat to say?
2007-02-03 08:36:00 · 5 answers · asked by sarah_gotdance 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you can tell him how you feel but i think that you need to ask yourself some questions. First, think about why you broke up in the first place. Once you have that, who's fault was it and are either one of you willng to change to make it work. Are you willing to compromise with him? Also, make sure that you know exactly what you want and are willing to except if you want to try and make things work. As far as what you should say, just tell him exactly what you are feeling. I am still in love with you and are you willing to give us another chance. Sending a e-mail is okay but how would you like him to respond? by e-mail? wouldn't you rather see his reaction and get an answer then? What will you do if he doesn't respond? You can't assume that he doesn't want to be bothered because maybe he needs time to think or he can't express his feelings. At least if you tell him face to face, you will not have to wonder.
2007-02-03 08:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by imhischildtwo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't send the email. Don't talk to him. There's a reason why he's ur ex and obviously you guys have communication problems. I was in the same situation once and I did tell him how I felt- not by email but by text. And it was so awkward seeing him afterwards because he didnt return my feelings. So think why u broke up in the first place and whether he's been in touch in the last 4 months. If he hasnt, or u broke up for serious reasons (like lack of communication) then stay out of contact w/ him and try moving on.
2007-02-03 16:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking is much better than an email because you can't see the emotion in an email. Will he take your call? Did you end the relationship or did he? If he did, you might want to leave it alone. If you ended it you might have a shot. If you are strong enough to call him, write out everything you want to say in bullet form and have it in front of you when you call. That way you'll keep focused and get to say everything you want to. If this is not possible, consider sending him flowers that say something simple like, "you're always on my mind."
2007-02-03 16:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by tepjoule 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe if you truly do love the man, then you should tell him. If you are most comfortable telling him through n emil then that is a good way to do it. Don't over do it, becuase your right, that would push him away. Just simply and quickly explain that you still have feelings for him.
2007-02-03 16:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by apple513 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet him and talk to him,, don't send emails,, emails have no emotions or feelings.. It won't proof him anything..
2007-02-03 16:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋