i have a crush on my teacher?

Question

mkay i like my teacher. she is hott. i am getting my hair done like hers. she has told me she missed having me in her 5th hour class. now i only have her for 4th hour. she talks to other students and never has conversations with me. but she is always saying that she misses me and that i am a good writer. she is so hott. i told my friends and they think i am nuts. but i think i am bi. so how can i get the teacher to notice me. i mean i want to be friends but not have a love relationship. i am good in class and i never get introuble. i always say hi to her and she says hi back and smiles. so how can i get her to notice me? does she like me? would she care if i did my hair like her?

Answer 1

This one isn't going to be all that happy - Teachers have to be very, very, very careful about their relationships with thier students. We are not allowed to be really 'friends' - It looks too fishy. We can be friendly and absolutely genuinely care for our students, but we cannot and must not take it outside the classroom.

My Field Supervisor said it perfectly: "Students don't care how much you know until they know how much you care." Your teacher would be flattered and honored that you have such feelings for her, but she will be absolutely unable to return those feelings, even if she wanted to. To do so would end her career (and any hopes of ever working as a teacher again) and would possibly have legal repercussions as well.

Sorry to be such a downer!

Orion

Answer 2

Okay, that's not unusual. Lots of kids I know have crushes on their teachers. But .. it's illegal for a student to have a relationship with their teacher unless it's just teacher-student, not girlfriends.