why dont women tell whats on her mind, why do men have to read body language and stuff..it would be much easier if women tell what she want? like if she wants sex..just say??? so guy knows what to do..why it has to be so complex...and no wonder so many questions come up in yahoo answers??what u think ?
2007-02-03 08:22:45 · 7 answers · asked by gladiator o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes it is hard for a girl to speak her mind, just because she may not know exactly what she wants. Also, there are times when we know exactly what we want, but aren't sure how it would be recieved if we were to say it aloud. Sometimes a girl needs more, but she is afraid to say such because of gaining the title "high maintanance". There are times when a girl just needs you to hold her and be there, but she doesn't know how to ask, and just wishes that you would know when something is wrong like her best friends does. We are complicated, and we realize that, but it is usually things that are deep inside and more sensitive in the issue that we have problems disclosing, its just one of those insecurities that are there. Just try to be sensitive about it, don't push too hard, and don't try to talk to much about it, eventually, if she trusts you, she will share her secrets, it just takes time.
2007-02-03 08:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by chelsie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think many women do speak their minds. There are some issues, like sex, that men are not particularly enthusiastic when a woman says "hey, let's have sex." I have been with men who find that offensive. If that is the case, what is a woman to do? Sending out signals, such as body language may be her only recourse. Don't pin the blame on our gender - it is men who have objectified women for years in the sexual arena. In fact, up until about 40 years ago, it was considered "unladylike" to even indicate you "enjoyed" sex. The only women who enjoyed it were prostitutes. Men wanted "good women" for wives and mothers. In fact, they still do. It is like men want a angel for a wife and mother but a thousand dollar hooker in the bedroom. Geez, why don't you guys make up your minds!?
2016-03-29 03:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they are embarrassed for what will be the outcome of the situation? or maybe they are not sure of themselves, if that's really what they wanted?
well, i guess it depends on the person, if she is confident enough to handle the truth. no matter what the outcome is, she will take care of it, then plus point if she is frank and honest. maybe you have not met that kind yet.
sometimes, its not all about sex, its the feeling that attach to it. then if they are not used to being bold, you can't get it out from her. sometimes denial, respect and strong control is your culprit.
can't help but feel sorry, i've been there (with a man) same issue with yours. i guess due to we were so close and friends for life, we don't want to jeopardize the friendship, but i know we almost go with the flow, but deep inside i know there will be a barrier between us, always.
2007-02-03 08:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by salome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, are you kidding? do you want to go insane? If a woman told you what was on their mind, it wold drive you totally insane. The women themselves don't even know what's on their mind.
2007-02-03 08:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What would be the point. You wouldn't listen anyway.
2007-02-03 08:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by Cricket 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them and ask them
2007-02-03 08:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that, u will never get us
2007-02-03 08:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by ☠Rockerchick☠ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋