Well, I told my friend that I love her. The reaction is not something that was bad in my opinion. She didn't respond with anything real verbal but just looked at me. Not a blank stare, but something more. I have known her for so long and took a risk of saying this to her despite how much our friendship means to each other. Its been a few weeks now and she calls me when she is out of work, or really wants to do something, she invites me over to her place we hang out and just relax, or go out to dinner and to some bars. I am just confused on how she feels back towards me. Is there possibly something more there that she is not willing to say in fear of ruining the friendship? I really don't want to come out and ask her in case that is the reason. Is this something that I can tell her again that I love her to see if there is another reaction to it?
2007-02-03 08:22:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u really need to have a good talk with her and ask her how she feels. its been a while since youve told her how u feel and shes had plenty of time to think. so u should really try talkin to her about it and ask her how she feels, if she doesnt want to risk ruinin the friendship, u need to let it go. havin a friend and lovin them is better than lovin them and not havin them at all. to make u feel better im stil in love with someone and we havent talked in over 3months. so be bold, talk to her!
2007-02-03 08:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she may feel the same way but doesnt want to mess the friendship up. just ask her. and remember that sometimes best friends make the best lovers. also u need to make sure that if u 2 break up it wont mess the friendship up. be honest and open and just talk to her. u never no u may be a match made in heaven! good luck! if it does turn out to be true love hold on to each other forever because true love only comes once in a life time.
2007-02-03 16:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by emilybailey1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still calls you - thats a good sign. She might love you back and she might not. either way she is willing to be friends with you over anything. Thats great...
Maybe she doesnt want to ruin the friendship because she doesnt feel that way back.
Dont say anything for the moment because she might b making her mind... but be really nice to her.. and maybe a bit boyfriend-ly
2007-02-03 16:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and talk to her she might be a little scard but befor you drop the "L"bamb again make shure she is ok with you my friend likes me but I don't that could be the case.
2007-02-03 16:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by v-girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋