I broke up with my boyfriend a while ago, but I just can't get over him. He lied to me a number times and I just want to get over him. What should I do?
2007-02-03 08:16:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well the hardest thing you will have to do is don't let him back. it would be hurtful ,selfish just wrong to him and you.you will have to pray to god to take the pain away. just remember our god doesn't want us sad or hurting. but you cant hate him cause god don't want us hating anybody or thing .be strong it will get easier be strong don't get weak he lied lied lied more than once you can forgive you don't have to take him back.if you do it will only get worse never better .BE STRONG YOU CAN DO THIS GOD IS ON YOUR SIDE.
2007-02-03 08:32:28 · answer #1 · answered by JAYHAWKER 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U need to get mad about what he did to you.
Don't dwell on the good times. I'm sure there were some. Even relationships that aren't good, still have some good times. Don't put yourself in situations where you feel depressed. Surround yourself with friends and for goodness sakes,don't listen to sad depressing music or watch sappy movies or shows. Put yourself in a position of distraction and fun where you can smile.
2007-02-03 08:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by gnuck gnuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not the boyfriend you are trying to get over...it is the betrayal of a friend. Only time and "another man" will heal that wound.
2007-02-03 08:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to get back in circulation girlfriend! Find other friends and men - take an interest in other things. He is not someone that will make you happy in the end - if he is deceitful.
2007-02-03 08:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush it, it takes time. it took me 3 years to get over a boy i dated for 7 years. ever see that sex in the city episode where the amount of time it takes to get over a boyfriend in equal to half the time you dated them...
2007-02-03 08:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have just the cure. Listen to Your Heart. You're an Angel. You should have a Beautiful one. Let it tell you who's is beating for you. Then, only show your feelings to him. Your Heart won't lie. It won't hurt you. and you won't go wrong, by listen to it. Try it. Then report back to me. Check Profile!
2007-02-03 08:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date another guy, or even go for a fling. Get another guy and u will be over it in no time. Just remind yourself, He lied to me and he is a jerk. and tell urself to get over it...
2007-02-03 08:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well,it's very simple.Find something new to occupy your mind.Treat yourself to dinner.Try to enjoy life the way its going.After a break-up sometimes you need to move on.
2007-02-03 08:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by Clara K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long is "a while ago"? Give it time and get a life.
2007-02-03 08:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget him!
Forget yourself!
Go do something for someone else.
2007-02-03 08:21:26 · answer #10 · answered by iwonder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋