okay this all started when i started dating him and he always say's im coming over than i get all dressed and he does'nt even show and dont even call to say i cant make it this is the 4rth time he's done this do i break up with him ???????i love him soo much but its just becuz of his lying thats causing me all this pain pleaes help me!!!!?
2007-02-03 08:05:36 · 30 answers · asked by LoVeR** 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I read this ? my first response was....aaaaaaaaaw,he so doesn't care about her.
I'm sorry hon, he really doesn't care. He should be eager to come over and see you. I mean it's different if he is a work-aholic and just got caught up in something at work and forgot to call sooner than later, but you say he doesn't show or call. That just isn't right. Please do yourself a favor and make him pissed at you and call this relationship off. It's gonna hurt to do it, but let me tell you there are men out there that at the very least call when they can't make it. You do not deserve to be forgotten.
2007-02-03 08:11:06 · answer #1 · answered by gnuck gnuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would give him the cold shoulder and ignore him for a couple of days. It might be hard for you at first, but this is one way to find out if he is really into you. Give him a bit of his own medicine... treat him the way he treats you, then dump him. He is obviously not worth your time, and time is precious. Go out and meet new people. The single life is actually better than you think. Take my advice and your avatar should go from a frown to a smile :-D
2007-02-03 16:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by Cyndee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, Dump The Chump! Next! You weren't in Love with him. You were craving the attention. Lots of Guys can give you attention. Next time. Listen to the Heart. It may keep your Love, around much longer. You might as well try it. Your way hasn't worked, so far.
2007-02-03 16:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I realize there are times when this happens but it doesn't happen over and over again without a call or explanation. I wouldn't be surprised if there are other things he is lying about. I would say if he isn't curtious enough to tell you he can't be there then he isn't ready to be in a relationship. Dump him and move on to someone who trusts you and is more mature
2007-02-03 16:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by Beeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you need to be asking is "Is this how I want to spend the rest of my life?" If the answer to that is yes, then continue to put up with it. If the answer is no then kick him to the curb so hard he bounces because he will never change.
Once a liar always a liar.
2007-02-03 16:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like this guy talk to him. ask him if there is something wrong find it out. i know boys should always be the one to consult the girl but sometimes we should do it. Tell him that you really love him but if doesn't tell you what is really going on and you feel that he really doesn't like to tell the truth find proof. you don't have to run into conclusions. and if you gathered the most powerful proof to break - up with him then, break - up with him. it maybe hard but someone will come for you.
2007-02-03 16:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jeahn Prescille P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must think very little of yourself to put up with that. Standing you up twice is too much for most girls. Kick him to the curb where he belongs..you will love another soon enough.
2007-02-03 16:10:11 · answer #7 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him!!! He's using you for all the wrong reasons. He is obviously jus dating you until someone else comes along. He's not worthy of you and you deserve better treatment.
2007-02-03 16:15:00 · answer #8 · answered by xlr8n51ca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely break up with him. There is no sense wasting your time on someone who doesn't even care enough to call and tell you he can't make it. If he lies to you, you can't trust him and without trust you can't have any real love.
2007-02-03 16:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesnt care about your feelings , so tell him you have other plans when he says hes coming over and that he could meet you later
2007-02-03 16:09:02 · answer #10 · answered by colbydog43 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋