I asked this before, but I think I worded things wrong.
I am INLOVE with my bestfriend. He has a new girlfriend now. They've been going out for around a month. She had the nerve to tell him that he couldn't talk to his FRIENDS anymore because we're the reason they fight! and he's listening to her! We tried to talk to him calmly about this.. but he doesn't understand. He is whipped! He's lieing to all his friends, and getting into drugs. I love him so much and I don't want to see him get hurt.. or end up DEAD.
He really thinks he's inlove with this B*tch. But if they break up, what's he going to have? He told me and his other bestfriend not talk to him when he's around his girl and stop trying to break them up because they're inlove and they'll be together forever. He's only 16 and it's only been a MONTH.
2007-02-03 08:03:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And I won't lie.
I wish I could be with him and show him real love.
But.. for now, he's with her.
I can wait.. but,
I'm afraid if I stop talking to him he'll get into more drugs and I don't want him to die.. or something really bad.
(I bug on this so much b/c my moms in jail for drugs and alcohol and had family die from drugs too)
I don't want his ego to over load and think he can control me too by not talking to me around her.
I love him so much, what should I do?
2007-02-03 08:03:54 · update #1
it may hurt, but the best way is to just let your friend fall on his face. its the only thing that seems to help. sometimes you just have to let people go.
2007-02-03 08:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by WHY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that if he's so in love with her enough to turn his back on his friends, he doesn't even deserve to have friends.
Ignore him. Turn YOUR back on him the way he's doing to all of you. When he finally breaks up with her, he'll come crawling back. If you two were ever REALLY best friends, he'll come back to apologize.
As for the drug issue, that's not something you can help him with. You need to tell someone about the issue before he can hurt himself.
But let him take his fall from grace and figure out why he fell.
2007-02-03 08:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wise to be concerned, and a good friend. Too bad he can't see it. If SHE is doing drugs too, turn HER in. This should cool things off for a while if she gets nailed with something. Chances are though that if they are together he will go down too, but it's better than being dead. maybe then he will see SHE is dragging him under and wise up. Once he wises up, move in for support for him. He will see the light soon. God Bless You.
2007-02-03 08:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he won't listen, he won't listen. Sounds like several of you got together to talk to him about his. The issue is the drug use - if you are really that concerned - you owe it to him to talk to a school counselor about the drug use and see if you can't get him help.
2007-02-03 08:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him...tell him to get help with his drug problem...try to be there but at the same time let him go through this...unfortunately sometimes you have to hit rock bottom before you admit you have a problem.
2007-02-03 08:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by itsjustchris1968 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
intervention. get all of his former friends and family and discuss it. tell him hes goin down the wrong path, a real gf wont let him get into drugs and all that. tell him u all luv him so much, especially u and if he cares fo u guys, he would get rid of his ****!ng *****.
2007-02-03 08:11:44 · answer #6 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we have to watch the people we care about realize things on their own. you seemed like you have tried to talk and you have failed. the harder you push the more he will pull away. if you feel like his life is in danger then try to contact his parents. or you can let him crasha nd burn and hopefully you will still want to be his friend when he needs you.
2007-02-03 08:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.. i think you should gather some friends and talk to him, maby more people he see's that feel the same way as you will change his mind... if it is easy for you to see that she is no good for him and will just end up wrecking his life then he should agree with you..
2007-02-03 08:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by jugga_420_1@hotmail.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's really bad!I understand you!
I think you should show how that b??th make him really bad!
But you must be quick,and help him before its too late!
or
is it really hard to say u love him maybe it may change things?
2007-02-03 08:12:36 · answer #9 · answered by htc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off...if you don't he will drop you. Don't underestimate the power of the pu**y.
2007-02-03 08:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋