I am not trying to be conceited. Every time I am in a serious relationship my girlfriend’s friends usually hit on me or flirt. They do it secretly behind their back. One time one of their friends touched my back and I thought it was my girlfriend and I said “I like it like that” but it wasn’t my girlfriend it was her friend. When my girlfriend turned around and found out she was angry not only at her friend but at me as if I had something to do with it. Now I have a new girlfriend and she wants me to meet some of her friends. I don’t know if I should because I don’t want the same thing to happen.
2007-02-03 08:01:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well flirting is a natural thing that doesn't need to mean anything...however if they ONLY do it when their friend is not around and it is a dramatic change from when they are together there is somthing more happening here...if this keeps happening to you it is about the women you are choosing...you might want to try the kind of women who are supportive of one another not so competitive and backstabbing...
2007-02-03 08:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u need to let these girls no that ur a 1 woman guy. when 1 of them flirts w/u just tell them that ur not like that and that ur w/the one u want. maybe ur girlfriend is testing u to see if u will cheat on her w/1 of her friends and if so just tell them to stop and that u wont cheat on ur girl. just put ur foot down and make it clear that ur with 1 person only. good luck hottie! just kidding. i had to put that in there. :)
2007-02-03 08:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by emilybailey1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would be honest with her and tell her your problems from the past. but i would meet them, just be careful that it doesnt happen again. and i would also tell this new girlfriend if it does happen. dont be affraid to tell her whats really going on, because who knows what else the girls do begind her back! good luck..
2007-02-03 08:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by faith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, girls can sometimes be very sneaky, and alot of times when your girlfriends' friends hit on you, thier just doin it to see how u will react so they can go and tell your girlfriend how you 'liked it' or how u went along with it. Just remember to keep it cool around her friends and become friends with them also!!
2007-02-03 08:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by B.O.N.A.F.I.D.E. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
put them in their place.
don't "accidentally" say things to fuel the fires either.
it is obviously bad territory to mess with your friends guy, which is why these girls are going there.... makes me wonder what your girlfriend is really like deep down.... hmmmmmm
2007-02-03 08:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls jest do it to be friendly, but some have a crush on you. so if you don,t like it tell then to not do that ever againe because you what to be true to your girlfriend,
2007-02-03 08:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read the story of two eyes
the two eyes sleep together,cry together,watch movies together etc etc allways together.
But if a girl comes in front of you one eye blinks.
Moral is girls can break any relationship
2007-02-03 08:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by suma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of life.
When you single you can't find someone but, find someone and the rest of the girls pour out of the wood work
2007-02-03 08:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you want this one to work out? you have to tell he before you meet them. be sudle with it. when you say it. say, "this has happened in the past to me. i dont want that to affet us". good luck
2007-02-03 08:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by EMMAS' CUTE_NESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls do this to see if you will be faithful to their friendso watch what you do
2007-02-03 08:04:46 · answer #10 · answered by colbydog43 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋