i am 16 years old and am going out with this guy who is 23. now he is oki he is not going out with me to have sex or anything but i was thinking if i wanted to have sex with him. but the prob is that is it that i am still young to have sex and if i have sex with him would he think that i am cheap to lose my verginity at 16 . what do you think?
2007-02-03 07:38:45 · 20 answers · asked by lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no if ur ready it will flow into place, i lost my virginity at 16 with my bf hu was 20 at the time, if he respects u enuff hell wait, ur not cheap to loose ur virginity at 16 its the leagal age, dont worry bout wot other ppl will think its how u feel, that counts
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2007-02-03 07:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by vicky s 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I went out with a 23 year old when I was 16 but 16 is the legal age in the uk.
if you're not completely comfortable with it then don't do it. Just talk to him about it first
2007-02-03 08:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by MisSMurd3r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the legal age for a girl to have sex must be 16 for a good reason if you wanna sleep wiv him go for it ust be careful of course and dont let him pressurise u - not that im sayin he is or anything. I slept wiv my bloke at the age of 16 (my first time) he was 22 at the time and we married now - i 21 1/2- and have a son and another baby on the way
Just be happy and make sure you are ready
2007-02-03 08:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by itsmeeeeeeeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....here in Canada, it is illegal for a 15 year old (and down) to have sex or to date someone at the age of 23 (and 18 as well). Since you're 16, I think it's okay for you to have sex....but, not with a 23 year old. But, again, it's you and your partner's choice, so you two do whatever you want.
2007-02-03 07:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In regards to sceptics comments
Don't you worry why someone as old as 23 wants to hang around with young girls?
endquote...
Says a lot about how he treats younger people or did so when he was younger.
As mostly I would assume they both like the same musica and stuff, both like each other, click togther. Maybe he is immature and she is mature and and most couples who like each other like kissing and getting sexaul...
So why would they be any different to any other couple.
The only problem I see in two years may be going off to uni
A) its legal
B) Any notion of cheapness if total hoerse **** invented by psychos who used to burn alive the local doctor ie witch at the stake after rapeing and torturing hwer when they were not abusing children in some kids home as they.... old guys are power obessed and a young fertile, femle in late teens and early twenties...
has massive power to influence males.
IN OTHER WORDS... ITS LIKE SAYING A STRONG GUY IS IMMORAL IF HE USES STRENGHT OR A SMART KID MUST NOT USE HIS BRAIN.
16 is actually the best age to have saex as you still have two years to learn about relationships whilst living at home with mum and dad as sexaul relatioships have much more feelsing and bad bits as well as the good bits and you need mum and dad and all friendfs going through the same thing you can talk to... You won't get that at home.
Plus forget this nonsese that he is only into one thing, a peado or manipulating you or disgusting...
If he forcing you to dao anything you dont want to?
NO
is he controlling you in some way
NO
Do you like him and he like tyou and have stuff in common and like touching each other and feeling close?
YES
that what makes it ok and everyone else can go jump...
And Ill bet he has not dated that much either...
have several friends do dated with age gaps like yours... No probabs at all both were all sad before then happy together...
dont let others make you sad.
Look couples who genuinely care wont thing cheap or easy rubbish just be happy they have someon to snuggle up with at night and lovinkly touch each other and have fun and cuddle after,...
thats what its all about
Be happy
Lonliness is sad
2007-02-03 14:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You gat a long to way to go!!!! Remember he is is 23 and you are 16..lose your V wit someone your age. He might leave you that you are a baby...maybe wait till you are atleast 18 ...
2007-02-03 07:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by Babykay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all why are your parents letting you go out with a 23 yr old man and if you do have sex with him he could get into BIG trouble for satutory rape
2007-02-03 07:44:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
abstinence is key here hunny you should be worried about spelling virginity right not whether you should give your flower away!
7 years is too big an age gap, he isn't into you he is just pulling you to show off to his old friends
i know you dislike me right now and i apologise. good luck
2007-02-03 09:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why the flipping heck are you going out with a 23 year old?!
2007-02-03 07:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by don't stop the music ♪ 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
He is an adult. You are still a child.
You know where this answer is going, don't you?
Don't you worry why someone as old as 23 wants to hang around with young girls?
2007-02-03 07:44:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋