My friend keeps hitting on the guy i like and now they have a class together and i'm really worried. Especially because I know my friend's not that great for him. Also, i would think he'd be weirded out by her hitting on him because it seems so stupid.. how do i get him to actually think she's not that great?
2007-02-03 07:33:22 · 12 answers · asked by katie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I ALREADY TOLD HIM I LIKE HIM THAT'S WHY IT'S SO BAD
2007-02-03 07:42:37 · update #1
The most attractive thing about
a person is their confidence.
Work on your self esteem.
Trying to make someone else
look bad..makes you look bad.
It's just not very mature..........
2007-02-03 07:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As much as you would like to think there is something you can do to convince him otherwise, he will think what he wants about your friend.
Rather showing jealousy, maybe you should give a chance and tell him how you feel? There is no sense in bad-talking your friend, when you can jump in and fight for the same chance she is getting.
2007-02-03 07:40:31 · answer #2 · answered by zaq23edc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a guy yet you popping out to me as bi it would not change the way i ought to cope with you. merely clarify to them that you're bi, yet that you're not in any respect fascinated in them as more effective than merely pals. & in the adventure that they fairly are your friends then they are going to understand you being bi & will proceed being pals merely as in the previous. even even with the actuality that do not be taken aback if at first once they hear the info from you that you're bi that they sense somewhat weirded out, yet minutes if no longer seconds afterwards will understand & now no longer sense weirded out.
2016-11-02 05:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he is not your husband or even your boyfriend, I'd let him know the real you & the real her & let him choose. You don't want to live traveling down the road of deceit. Even if you were boyfriend & girlfriend it would be better that you knew he chose you because he liked the real you over the real them. You won't be able to always hide the truth or sabatoge how other's perceive others to make yourself look better. That's not a good way to live. If you try to bias his perception of her & he buys it for a while but then ends up seeing her without your bias... that won't make you look good. Everyone should just be able to be themselves & lay their honest cards out there. If he chooses you for the real you over the real her, then you'll be happy since you like him. But if he chooses her over you, you may be disappointed. But you can be happy to know he wasn't the right one. The one that deserves you will like the real you over the real others. And please let people make up their own mind about others. They may eventually anyway. Be a good friend to your friend. If he ends up liking her, be happy for her please! Your guy will come along! {hug!}
BTW, I like Just_me's short-sweet-and-to-the-point answer! :) He/she can have 10 of my points. :)
2007-02-03 07:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by Nocine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, someone has been watching too many soaps.
If you like the boy, just tell him you like him. Sheesh.
These evil behind-the-scenes machinations only work on TV.
2007-02-03 07:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. That is easy.. Tell him! Also tell her to lay off because you have feelings for him.
2007-02-03 07:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's really not great for him then he'll rellize that by him self without anyone's help
2007-02-03 07:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by fo6a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and ask him out
2007-02-03 07:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if there not in a serious relation ship,tell your friend or make your friend take her top off.
2007-02-03 07:39:00 · answer #9 · answered by Owckoi 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do you like him? or just jealous.Because if you like him just tell her.
2007-02-03 07:37:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋