WEll, i really really really really really really like this guy, I was on a cross country team with him and we talked ALOT! then he asked me out and i broke up with him and i was stupid, ok well anyways, he was going to ask me out but i was freaking out inside and he looked ugly to me at that point so i ran away with my friend to the car, he kept staring at me in skool and my brother always teases me at skool when the doode i like is around cuz my bro knows i like him! It is really confusing because some days i say " i love him" and others i say " he's ugly and i don't" well toode
2007-02-03 07:30:26 · 11 answers · asked by Vikki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
figure it out in your mind then ask him or don't ask him.
It's all up to you
2007-02-03 07:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHA. I bet the thinking he is ugly is because he doesn't measure up to your friends standards (my first high school boyfriend was like that to me, he was great, but not cute enough). Just remember that just because he isn't the hottest guy in school doesn't mean you can't date him or hang out with him. Still be nice to him and don't reject him, cause it sounds like you do like him even if you are confused.
Tell him you want to date him, but you are confused about your feelings for him so you want to just be casual about dating him, not serious.
2007-02-03 15:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your being too fickle...please leave this guy alone, you sound like your going to end up hurting his feelings. If you go out with him and then a day or week or what ever think he is ugly again YOU'LL DUMP HIM.
You obviously don't truly like him because you wouldn't see him as ugly ANY TIME.
Leave this poor guy alone.
2007-02-03 15:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get things strait and make up your mind fast cuz that poor guys has a heart and your probly slowly breaking it! Don't make him waste his time if your just gunna play games with him. It's like stay loyal to him or don't like him at all!
2007-02-03 15:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem! I think you should go with "he's ugly and I don't". Because if you keep having these second thoughts, the relationship will be dull.
2007-02-03 15:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sometimes when you really like a guy, he may seem ugly to you. but then when you see him again you feel like you love him. i say that you ask him out so then he knows that you like him also. then when you start hanging out more as bf and gf, everyday you might feel like you love him
2007-02-03 15:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by stevie_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the poor guy is better off without you.your giving mixed messages and no one needs that.make up your mind one way or the other and get on with it
2007-02-03 15:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just giv him a chance and u might see somthin u never though u would see in him.
2007-02-03 15:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we really really really could care less about your high school kid games GET A LIFE.
2007-02-03 15:35:07 · answer #9 · answered by petasucks101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you what, 7 yrs old? im guessing
2007-02-03 15:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by yuygj2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋