really like this boy but i dont know how to ask him out??
Imma girl just so you know.
Well I like this boy(this is 7th grade)and he likes me to. The valentines dance is coming up and i want to go with him.......but I dont know how to ask him. Also I want to ask him out(when in middle school to be BF or GF means holding hands,lil kissies on the check,using his hoddie when you "forget"yours,lil things like that) But I have never asked a boy out or to a dance.
So how do I ask him to the dance??
How do I ask him out??
.......and thats all I need to know.....not things like your not ready or stick to your studies because I have all A+'s
2007-02-03 07:28:52 · 10 answers · asked by megan m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just talk to him and ask him
2007-02-03 07:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are adorable and intelligent! Congratulations on your awesome grades! I promise I won't say you're not ready but do stick to your studies...doesn't mean you can't do the fun school stuff, though. Just always be aware of your school work. Now, to answer your question, simply go up to him and say "hey, I'd like to go to the Valentine's Day dance so if that's something you'd like, too, would you like to go together?" Very casual, no pressure and if he declines, you don't look all heartbroken. You just put it out there casually. Have fun!
2007-02-03 15:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Megan, just go up and talk to him; ask him if he's planning on going and if he says yes than say you want to go together??? If he says no then as him why. He may say he doesn't have anyone to go with or he could be to shy or afraid to ask you either way that will open the conversations to ask him if he'd like to go together. At first don't make it sound like a date, just go as friend and let things develop, don't push and don't rush. You know what if he says he's going with his friends, then say I'll see you there... Friends first don't rush the relationship you are young enjoy the friendship first then let it grow into a relationship if it is meant to.
2007-02-03 15:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by crazymom617 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You,ve already said he likes you too. He probably don't know how to ask you either. Just ask him if he would like to go to the dance together. If you can't get up the nerve have a friend to help you out by them telling him that you want to know if he would like to go together.
2007-02-03 17:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off ask if he plans on going to the dance and if he says yes then be like me to ya wanna go together even if he says no or hes going with someone else you tried thats how life is but dont wait to long or the other girl will ask him and youll be left going by your self good luck and just ask him already
2007-02-03 15:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by ibebarbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say: "Hi, my name is Megan. I would like to invite you to the Valentine's day dance." If he hesitates, just say that there are no "commitment strings attached, that you think you will both have a good time.
2007-02-03 15:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by The Parthian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think first you should have your friends do a lil snooping and see whether he wants to go with you or not then if he does ask him if he dont then dont
2007-02-03 15:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by filipino_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a girl wow. ok now the serious part. you want to ask him out make it a game. it doesnt have to be fansy. write it on a piece of paper "do you want to go out?" the three boxes thing of "yes" "no" or "maybe" after that it is up to him to ask you out. because then he will know how you feel.
2007-02-03 15:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by EMMAS' CUTE_NESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just ask him.A note will not help just cause confusion.And proves you are weak.Because you need to have courage to do it.So just walk up to him and tell him and if he says no dont cry just make him jealous by shaking his hand and saying okay and look in his eye s when you do it.He will be shocked.
2007-02-03 15:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask him out. he has to do it
2007-02-03 15:32:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋