I think im in love with this guy he's the sweetest,kindest,funniest and smartiest guy ive ever met hes also cute and everything i ever wanted. Ever since the day i saw him i felt like a vibe or connection there. Do you think its possible to fall in love at age 14 tunring 15?
2007-02-03 07:09:30 · 21 answers · asked by *Glitta n' Gloss* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I think that love comes at its time and that nothing, not even your age, can prevent that from happening. I fell in love for the first time when I was twelve, and my friends would all the time tell me that I was too young to be able to have feelings that deep. I knew in my heart that it wasn't just strong like, it was LOVE. You yourself may be skeptical that a twelve year old can't possibly in love. But when you meet someone, regardless of the age, love is definitely possible.
2007-02-03 07:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Yes, it’s possible. But there are different kinds of love.
There’s the love you have for a sibling, but that’s not a romantic love. You may love pizza, but again, that’s not romantic. I’ll ask you a few questions that can help you determine more about what you’re feeling, OK?
• Could you be in love with the idea of being in love?
• Are you in love with how fun it is to have a best guy friend with whom you feel close and connected?
• Do you perhaps admire specific qualities about this guy that you’re mistakenly interpreting as romantic love?
You’ve probably heard the term “puppy love.” It’s having an infatuation with someone and deeply caring about another person. But it’s not the love that you’d need to last a lifetime; it’s not the marrying kind of love. That doesn’t mean it’s not real; it’s just not the love you want for a husband/wife relationship. When you’re old enough to be married, you won’t be the same person you are at 14; neither will your guy friend.
And if it is romantic love? That can be dangerous territory . . . because what can you do with romantic love at 14? If you truly are in love—with the kind of love that will last a lifetime—talk with your folks about it. Why? Because you’ll need advice on handling this strong of a love at such a young age.
2007-02-03 07:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't. I dated the same guy for 3 years (up until I was 18) and we were engaged because my parents didn't like the idea that we were dating to being with. He wound up being a complety different person than the one I had known since the second grade and is now living two states away and joined the military.
At the age of 14 it's more of an infatuation than love. Love is when you're willing to die for the person you are with and sacrifice everything. Are you willing to never speak to your friends and family if they don't approve of this guy? Are you willing to give him your organs should he need them? Do you think he's willing to do the same for you, or is he all talk?
You don't really know a person at that age, because people do a very good job at keeping secrets. Not to mention you'll both be completly different people in 2 years, and then you'll change again after graduation and possibly college. You're probably not even sure what you want out of life yet, give yourself a few years before even thinking about dating seriously and I promise you won't regret it.
2007-02-03 07:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by Athena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say yes, although what you're feeling may not be a lasting love. Keep in mind that longer term relationships and marriage require a certain amount of maturity that you just don't posses yet. By all means, see where it goes. But, please don't make any long term decisions. Keep things like consequences of sex in mind. Anyone can tell you to use birth control and condoms for std protection, but if those really worked, i wouldn't have 2 beautiful boys. I conceived my oldest while on the pill, and I took it regularily, and my youngest was conceived while using a condom that didn't break. And just so you know, the bacteria and viruses that cause std's are smaller than sperm, and if even 1 sperm can get through and result in pregnancy, imagine how many bacteria and viruses can. Keep going together, think things through before you act, including consequences of your actions, and if it doesn't last, it probably wasn't meant to be. Any emotional experience you gain from this will help you to prepare for your future by allowing you to figure out what you do and do not want in a relationship. This emotional experience unfortunately can include hurt and disappointment.
2007-02-03 07:21:11 · answer #4 · answered by passionatemilf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course it is .. but will it last ?... mmm that's another question ... Yes anyone can fall in love at any age ... and young love is the most pure and innocent ... you didn't ask if it will stick forever and maybe I'm going in the wrong direction but some loves have lasted a life time .. if its a soul mate ... and you both want to go in the same direction but in most cases what you like and want when are young changes as you grow older.. and unfortunately people grow apart ... sad but true reality ... but stay idealistic and live in the moment ... every person that comes into your life has something to share with you and you have something to share with them. Its all a learning experience .
If you think like that it can be a much more positive way to view things if it doesn't work out ...
2007-02-03 07:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by elke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's just puppy love/lust/infatuation.
When you experience TRUE love, you will know it. It's a feeling beyond anything you can truly feel at 15.
Remember this. When you are 20 and in love with someone, compare that love to the "love" you feel now...it will be amazingly different.
Besides, at 15, if you were to become his gf, by the time the school year is out or even by the time you graduate, you'll be broken up and never hear or see him again.
People rarely see or keep in contact with people from HS aside from the few best friends.
2007-02-03 07:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by RitzFitz29 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's possible. Just remember that you're young, it's a first love, it will end some day and keep your feelings in check. Don't have sex! You leave a piece of your heart with everyone you have sex with, and it's a hugely emotional thing to do, best saved for when you're an adult and better able to handle all the ramifications (like being a mother). Enjoy the feeling of being in love.
2007-02-03 07:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by Savvy Sue 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its definitely a form of love but not the real thing...you're only 14...i'm 21 and i still don't know what love is - you probably care for this for this person unconditionally
2007-02-03 07:16:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO. WELL YOU HAVE A 1 % CHANCE, BUT MOST LIKELY NO. IT IS YOUR HORMONES. IF AFTER A LITTLE WHILE WHEN YOU ACTUALLY GROW UP AND EXPERIENCE THINGS YOU STILL FEEL THE SAME WAY THEN YOU DO LOVE HIM. BUT RIGHT NOW, YOU ARE JUST TOO YOUNG.
2007-02-03 07:39:40 · answer #9 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. But it is not really love.. It's call infatuation.. At that age you can not distinguish the difference
2007-02-03 07:12:50 · answer #10 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋