i want get fosted but i do not no how to go about it cause i hate my parents?

Question

i hate my parents i do not want to stay with them no more

Answer 1

Everyone hates their parents at one time or another. As you get older you will see that whatever they did was best for you.
So whatever your problem is try and get over it - trust me one day soon you will be thankful for them - getting away from your parents will not solve anything.

Answer 2

You will not get a proper answer to this question as you have not given enough details If there is a serious issue with your parents you must tell us why. If it is any consultation almost all teenagers go through a state of 'hating' their parents. However, if it is something more than being grounded or if any issue of abuse that is different. As a mum having brought up a family I now want you to take 'time out' and ask yourself these questions. Are your parents doing anything whatsoever to hurt you either physically or emotionally? If they are you must take it further. Are your parents perhaps grounding you or not allowing you to stay out late or mix with certain company? You must ask yourself why? Is it just to be horrible or are these the people who have loved and cherished you from the day your were born? It always seems to a young person that parents are so old fashioned but being realistic parents normally have attempted to be just as daring as you. The reasons they are concerened usually is because they disobeyed their parents and really landed themselves in trouble (not likely tell you after all would you?) or when they matured they realised their parents were right. If you are a young teenageer you will probably laugh at what I have been saying but I can 1000% (yes a thousand not a mistake!) assure you that one day if you have children of your own you will see where I am coming from . If you have loving parents give them a chance............you will never get the chance to replace them.

Answer 3

Unless your parents are breaking the law, such as they are molesting you, or they are beating you, or they are negligent to the point of affecting your safety, you need to take a good look at yourself.

You're probably just a spoiled brat who needs a good beating anyways. Why don't you try being a good daughter and not such a pain in the a*ss. If you listen to what your parents have to say, and do what they say when they say it, then all of your problems will go away. Right now, you just sound like a dumb, ungrateful kid.

Foster parents are not going to be any better. In fact, they will care less about you and maybe even let you do whatever you want, but in the end, you'll end up another single mom on welfare with no values, no husbands, no money, and no future. How would you like that?

Answer 4

You can only go into a foster home if it is so serious that it can no longer be possible for a child to remain in their own home. these kind of extreme measure are decided by judges, social workers and other authorities. The causes are usually abuse, abandonment, imprisonment, neglegence or some kind of terminal illness and there's no one to look after them. No relatives, god-parents or anyone are available and then can the child only be placed in foster care. You cannot go about this just cos your parents won't buy you a pair of shoes. Only a few more years and one day when you have your own family you will look back on all this and laugh.

Answer 5

I was in foster care along with 2 of my siblings of one which I fostered and then adopted. Let me tell you foster care isn't easy either my brother was raped by his foster mother and I was treated like a work horse while there kids sat in the house and watched tv. I was beaten and choked by my mother, being in foster care was'nt my choice and its not the same as being with your real family if you can talk to your parents, give them a chance hopefully you can comprimise list the the good points and the bad ones they could do the same and work on the problem areas

Answer 6

Hi, if you hate your parents because there hurting you then you do need to get some legal advise. But if your just mad because of something their not letting you do or because you think they are so unfair then wanting to go to foster care on your end is selfish because you only make it harder on yourself. no one in this world would ever have to suffer from anything you do but YOU and if you don't want to go through hell then i advise change in yourself not your parents your parents might just be the ones keeping you safe. You think your going through problems well take a look around and see who is in a worser situation then yours and you might just see that you have it easier then most so don't abuse it your parents are here to help lead you shape, and mold you take advantage of it while there still there because you might really need them one day and i know you wouldn't want your parents to ever turn their backs on you in you time of need when all you have is your parents because everyone else who says they love you aren't there think about it sweetie before you make a bad decision if you need to talk i'm...............BLESSED352

Answer 7

You do not want foster parents,trust me.
Think about all the nice things your parents have done for you. They gave you a nice warm home,they gave you food and clothes. And the loved you,because you are their daughter. Foster parents are rude,they don't give you what your parents gave you,and once you are with foster parents, you are going to realize that leaving your parents was wrong,and that you loved them very much. If you left your parents,you would definatly regret it.

Answer 8

Really think about what you are asking. Do you really hate the people that made you, you? Do you want to become foster child and go through all those horrible things? Do your parents know how you are feeling? Think about it and Good Luck!

Answer 9

Join the club. You will outgrow your feelings of hate for your parents, as soon as you realize that the older you get the smarter your parents get.
Once you grow up to the point where you are mature enough to appreciate them, you will thank God that they cared enough for you to see that you got a good, disciplined start in life.

Answer 10

unless there is neglect or abuse just suck it up. every one hates there parents. I couldnt speak with my mother without a fight untill about a year after i moved away.
If you comply with their rules and realize you are young, they feed and clothe you, so you had better give them a little respect, you should get along. Get a job now and save up money so that when you are old enough you can move into your own place. It rake money to do that tho so get on it.