If I show interest, she might not like me, but if I don't and become a challenge, she might like me?

Question

Well, if you click on my name you can see why I asked this, but the thing is it seems like if I act towards her that I did before, paying her lots of attention, she might act indifferent towards me while if I don't she might be more interested in me. But I thought girls liked a guy that cares about them. I can see some of the boys she likes act as if they have no interest in her. I'm really confused; if we become friends again, will it be better I pay her as much attention as before (one example calling her and asking how her day was) or if I don't (not calling or messaging at all)?

Answer 1

How about becoming yourself and if it's not good enough for her, walk away.

Answer 2

at 1st it could look like a gurl likes a guy that is tough,but really most gurls don't.gurls like guys who care 4 them and show that they r interested in them.u do want 2 call.it makes a gurl fill better and that u care.u never want 2 be the kind that treats gurls any o kinda way.u want 2 b respectful and kind not 2 soft but not 2 hard.u want 2 be yourself and if she doesnt like that then she is the one.

Answer 3

u should not look interested..... just be confident when around her....... make as many jokes as u can, if about her is better.....
women like challenge so u should become one ;)
and the most important don't try to get her approval........
and don't call her unless it's something impotant or unless u want to take her out.....and make it quick.....and don't ask her like : could i take u to dinner this evening?........it makes her think u pay for her attention and she won't like this
say something like: i'M going to have dinner at my favourite restaurant today and i was wondering if u'd like to join me....


and the most imp try to trigger some tension when around her....
but don't become a wussy and stop talking...... if she does stop talking bust her over this.... tell something like: i knew girls get nervous around me because of my good looks but i thought u feel secure with me
;)