i went into my husbands email to edit some pics and found this email it said - mark how are you?it was good to see you again even if you did give me the cold shoulder.your sons are so big! mary- it sounds like she ran into my husband and his sons some where. but why the follow up email and whats with the comment about "cold sholder".my husband is the friendlist person i'm sure he was nice to her but what was she expecting? i do have to say they have a huge history together and she has made problems in his last marrage.the last time they saw each other was about 4 yrs ago.
2007-02-03 06:52:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You would rather it said "It was so wonderful seeing you and being with you again!"? You should be asking your husband this if you couldn't figure it out, but It is obvious he ran into her and blew her off. You should be glad. And I hope your husband knows you read his e-mail, or you may just be his new ex-wife.
2007-02-03 07:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's tough. But, I would find a bigger reason to be concerned if he would have talked to her. He was probably trying to avoid talking to her and creating problems. I would have rather read that he gave the cold shoulder than "it was so nice to have chatted with you and your boys, i loved seeing you!" It would lead me to think that something was really wrong. As I see it, it's your choice; do you want to let her be a problem in your marriage like she was in your husbands last marriage? Ignore it, I don't believe you should be too alarmed. I'd ask your husband about it but I wouldn't blow it out of proportion.
2007-02-03 14:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by JoAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that she saw him and old memories came back to her. She probably wanted to leap in his arms and kiss him all over. But this isn't good though she could be wanting to make trouble again. She would only know that she has a hold on him or had a hold on him only if you show fear or weakness. Make her understand that your love is unbreakable. Think of it if he did love her wouldn't she be his wife and not you? He love you so he married you I think that you should trust your husband a bit more and don't worry about it although you should be on the sharp look out for her.
2007-02-03 15:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "cold shoulder" is getting out of temptation not to get connected with her again, because that leads to cheating and he loves you too much to cheat! He wants a happy marriage with you! But make sure you ask him about the email
2007-02-03 15:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by funny chic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is tough, the question I have is how solid is your relationship with your husband?
If you feel that he would not think of you as spying or untrusting (you did read his email) then ask him about it.
If nothing else, tell him you read it and that it is bothering you. You can't let this become discord between the two of you. It would seem to me that he blew her off and that she was not pleased by it; but for doing that, kudos to him.
2007-02-03 15:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make nothing of it, she caused problems with your husband maybe she wants to do it again do not let her.
2007-02-03 14:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, its good that he gave her the "cold shoulder" or else one thing could have led to another, and before you know it, you would have been signing devorce papers. I think you should just ask him who she is and then, no more secrets!
2007-02-03 14:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by cece#2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He gave her the cold shoulder , you should be happy about it. he basically ignored her.
2007-02-03 14:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋