anybody. I'm nowhere near 30 but I'm a bit past my mid 20's. Any advise. Please serious opinions. Thanks.
2007-02-03 06:52:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whoa! you don't want to lose your virginity till your MARRIED? seriously? that is SOO SOO SOO cool! you go girl! I am SO proud of you. Keep that goal. Whatever you do, keep it. Your marriage is so much more amazing! More people need to do that. Stay patient. Stick to your morals. Find a guy with morals that are the same as yours. If you don't - you'll just end up getting ditched. Most people that try to find a love don't find one - many who don't look, do find one. The best thing to do is relax. I know that there are alot of Christian guys (only the real Christians) who save themselves for marriage. But don't go after them unless you believe the same as them. They do have the best God tho. Even if you do turn 30 (which I seriously doubt you will) without getting married, whenever you do get married it will be worth the wait. I speak from expierence that you must not waste your life away wishing you were married - realize what a blessing it is to be single. and remember, relax. Someone will come around.
keep your virginity.
I hope this helps hon, sorry if it didn't. Sorry about how long it is too. Anyway, I wish you the best!
2007-02-03 07:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear will cause more problems - you are NOT ready to give it up. And if its 3 inches long, its not big. If its 3 inches in width then you ARE in trouble. Since he admits to hurting his past GF's on purpose, then I would not even go there - that is abuse and he has no "love" if he's using sex for punishment. You will regret your decision to lose your virginity to a guy who has that kind of attitude!
2016-05-23 23:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do what you think is best for you. You should be commended for your decision to not sleep with someone unless you are truly in love with them and want to marry them.
Do you doubt yourself?
Take your time and not be impulsive, the right person will show up for you and when you meet him; you'll know it.
Good Luck
2007-02-03 07:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, my boyfriend read this and said you should give it up, honey! i respect you for your values, but honestly i feel sad that you have missed out on one of the most wonderful things in existance! great sex is not giving up anything! i just hope you find someone who appreciates that you have waited, but also is a good lover, and i hope you are open to ENJOYING sex when you do decide that you're ready, whether it is before or after marriage.
2007-02-03 07:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by treehuggernw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would continue to wait for marriage. Not many people do that anymore. You'll find the right man. Just don't settle for anything less than what you want or you might regret it.
2007-02-03 07:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by Deborah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would encourage you to continue to wait for your future hubby. It may seem like you have to wait forever, but believe me, there is nothing better than that feeling of knowing you waited for that person, and what you are giving to him is something you have shared with no one else. Please don't rush into any relationships or make choices because you are feeling the pressure of sex, or your biological clock, or anything like that. Hold on, girl! It will be worth the wait!
2007-02-03 06:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by january202 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go find a boyfriend that has the same goals you do,and after dating for a year or so, marry him.
2007-02-03 06:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, mabey it's time you started looking for a husband. Be patient. You've waited this long.
He'll be one lucky Man!!!
2007-02-03 06:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by redman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you haven't found the right guy for you yet, he is out there, you waited this long . a while longer won't matter.
2007-02-03 06:59:19 · answer #9 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will u marry me i am 32????SERIOUSLY,I RESPECT YOUR MORALS,VERY INTERESTING WANNA GET TO KNOW ME
2007-02-03 06:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by reifguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋