okay so i just got out of this relationship with a guy that i dated for 1 and 1/2 years... it has been about a month and a half since we broke up... he didn't treat me very well and he had to move so i knew that it was for the best. plus we argued all the time so it was not a happy relatinoship anymore. anyways.. i went on my first date since him last night with one of my guy friends that i've liked and i had a fabulous time. we held hands, we kissed at the end of the night, we cuddled, and he was such a gentleman. still, all that i could think about was my ex boyfriend and how much i missed him... the problem here is i REALLLYYY like this new guy...and he has all the values and morals i would want in a guy... i have already told the new guy that i would just want to date and not be in a serious relationship... and he agrees...but still i feel guilty for kissing another guy...its almost like if my ex boyfriend asked me i would get defensive and stuff...what do i do!?
2007-02-03 06:48:42 · 4 answers · asked by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have gotten rid of your last boyfriend, it will take a while to lose the feelings that you had for him. Just think about how good the new guy makes you feel and with time, it will get better. I dated a guy for 2 years and after breaking up with him, I was absolutely crushed for about 5 months until I met my now fiance and he helped me get over the last guy and build something stronger with him than I ever had with the guy before him!
2007-02-03 06:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by JoAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient with yourself. It hasn't been long since you ended a pretty long term relationship. This is new and different. Take it slow and keep your mind open. Sounds like you could have a winner this time!
2007-02-03 14:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by Savvy Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must take that step to move on. stop thinking in the pass
2007-02-03 14:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u shouldnt feel guilty
2007-02-03 14:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by rabdcow72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋