I just broke up with my bf/finace or 2.5 years and I was and possible still am dating a guy for 3 weeks. I dont know if we are still together becuase I have not talked to him at all for the past 2 days and he is not reterning any of my calls. I dont know what to do with him. I have a roomate and she has a bf who stays in the dorms with us, and I see them happy and all I can do is sit here and feel down becuase I dont have many friends becuase people tend to not like me. I always want to go hang out and have fun but I never do becuase I am hated for something that I have done in my past. I have a couple of questions; 1. What should I do anbout my bf of 3 weeks? 2. How can I be less shy and more outgoing? 3. How can I get people to like me? Please help me i am to the point where I would rather die then live, just becuase I say that does not mean I am going to do something stupid. I just want help I am depressed(not clinically proven)but I can tell becuase I am tears from everything latly
2007-02-03 06:45:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would hang out with my old friemds but they are at home 1100 miles away, so is my family. The only friend I have down here is my roomate.
2007-02-03 07:17:27 · update #1
I think you really sound like you don't like yourself and all of your situations in life depend upon you changing your own self view. If you work on appreciating you for who you are inside and stop trying to get people to like you, you will find more satisfaction in whatever you do.
2007-02-03 06:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't give enough details about what you did in your past.
If you have a bad reputation from the past, sometimes it takes
time for people to get over it. They may not be sure that you
are sorry and have changed. Generally people don't like
to tell you upfront what your flaws are its too uncomfortable and
they don't want to hurt your feelings. It is easier to just avoid
you. Give your bf a little space, you may be coming off as too
needy, that's sure to run any guy away. There is not enough
space here to cover all of your concerns. Find someone
whom you respect and talk to them. You are in distress and
there is no shame in seeking out a counselor or therapist who
can give advice and peace of mind. Take care of yourself.
2007-02-03 15:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by friend99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok 1st. Break up with that bf and go for one of your friend's bf's friend! If she's happy with him then maybe you'll be happy with one of his friends!
2nd. I think you should really listen to the saying " Don't frown because you never know who is falling in love with your smile"
3rd. Be yourself! Have a get together and get your friends to invite their friends and you'll defently make some new friends! :]] hope i helpedd!
2007-02-03 14:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by Vikki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit basing your self worth on what other people think of you and go get a hobby.
2007-02-03 14:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and people will start to like you for you if they don't than who needs them you have to learn not to care if people like,and when you lern that that when you'll get more friends
2007-02-03 14:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by kara S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow!!! how is that?? i wonder
2007-02-03 14:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by Pop♥Princess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋