Okay, so I have been dating this guy and we have been committed to each other for about more than 18 months now… and we really love one another.
We went out yesterday and then we went over to his place. He was cleaning his room while I was watching TV…
I felt high and so I took off everything and left my V shaped neck shirt on.
I sneaked behind him, hugged him, kissed him, and asked him to come over to the bed and lick me…
He did all that, but avoided going a step further for foreplay or intercourse.
How come? Does this mean that he does not find me attractive anymore? Or is it that he was just too busy cleaning his room? But then again, how can a guy resist a girl over cleaning his room?
Please help…
Our relationship is fine, but I was astonished and confused…
Can anyone offer a logical explanation please?
2007-02-03 06:42:26 · 10 answers · asked by Lily-Ann 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks everyone... you have all been so helpful. I just can't decide who to vote for and so I'm putting the question for vote.
I did talk to him and he said that it was because he wanted to get his work done and nothing else... I believe him.. yet, I still feel weird that he was able to resist me!
2007-02-06 02:08:33 · update #1
Maybe hes not ready to hae sex. He didnt ewant t go into foreplay becasue he didnt want to get to into it and do something he didnt want to.
2007-02-03 06:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by xhellsxlilxangelx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wouldnt find you attractive I think he wouldn't have licked you. Maybe he didn't feel like doing it, or something else is going on in his life because most guys would have had sex right there on the spot.
2007-02-03 14:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by Dathletez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he may have wanted 2 get that stuff out of the way first but u should still talk 2 him
2007-02-03 14:48:51 · answer #3 · answered by beebee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys like to make the first move. Ask him why things didn't progress. Or maybe he's gay?
2007-02-03 14:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by itsjustchris1968 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You girls have got to stop over analyzing every little thing. Maybe he felt dirty since he was cleaning his room?
2007-02-03 14:47:15 · answer #5 · answered by Xfactor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are attractive most guys would have got the job done , what a wussy.
2007-02-03 14:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probably wanted to intercourse with you when u were actually urself aand not high, if he can only get some when ur high, then wts thepoint?
2007-02-03 14:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by simplicity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he had something thinking about something real hard and did not feel the "vibes" to go any further. Please, talk to him before you draw any conclusions.
2007-02-03 14:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wanted to get his stuff done first
2007-02-03 14:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by koolwakeboarder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him.
2007-02-03 14:45:00 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋