2007-02-03 06:40:24 · 13 answers · asked by bellamora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I saw some of the people who said "you can't" but don't believe them. There is always a chance. One thing you'll have to do is be very nice to him and talk to him. When you talk to him, slowly let it slip that you've changed your attitude and that you're a new and improved model. Then slowly work your way up to what ever you are thinking about.
Remember, the trick is to do everything slowly. Don't ever rush into it.
Good luck.
2007-02-03 08:25:16 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same problem... I denied my guy because I wasn't sure if we could still be friends. I valued who he was as he was then, and I was afraid that change could mess things up... and to be honest, I wasn't interested too much in him as a boyfriend... but then, a month later... I got to thinking about how he was basically my other half. but the problem was he had gotten over me... so I did everything I could to turn him back to me... I took him to his favorite place, I cooked for him, I supported everything he did ( he pulls a nerd move on thursdays playing dungeons and dragons, and even though I wasn't sure about that, I still supported it, and eventually began playing it with him and now we have more in common and more to talk about...). so just tell him how you feel, and if he declines you, just show him what he is missing... good luck... and don't let anyone tell you you can't... nothing is impossible. ^_^
2007-02-03 06:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by Janille S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight up. tell him why you weren't interested at first and why you are suddenly interested now. Even if nothing else happens he will respect you a little more.
2007-02-03 06:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to humble yourself, you turned him down and now that you are interested me might have moved on. Well you just have to tell him that's the only way.
2007-02-03 06:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by Snake Dr. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie, you already lost your dignity when you erroneously used "loosing" instead of "losing," and writing "times" instead of "time." I'd be willing to bet that you failed kindergarten....My advice: Don't ever talk or write again....
2007-02-03 06:46:54 · answer #5 · answered by beauregard 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell him you made a mistake and u felt stupid , tell him you shouldent have been mean to him and your sorry then get back on the flirting "square 1"
2007-02-03 06:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by m1chael jordan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking to him casually...invite him out for coffee. Tell him how you feel.
2007-02-03 06:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by itsjustchris1968 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to go with you someplace and do not make a big deal about it.
2007-02-03 06:44:07 · answer #8 · answered by BR 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you refused him sometime ago then why do you want it back? are you a playa?
2007-02-03 06:43:54 · answer #9 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just spend more time with him and try to create tension.......
if he doesn't find his words when he's around you..... evrika
he's all yours.........
when u're alone with him try to kiss him.....believe me this will drive him mad ;)
2007-02-03 07:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋