there is this guy that i like and i thought that he likes me back... so i asked him if he does and he said "i dont know". The day before that he tryed to talk with me... he came and sat next to me and we were looking at each others eyes and just smile... well ...we spoke a little and that was it... but i really like him... when i wrote him... i think he was mad at me and he said a couple of time " i cant understand u... u always want to talk with me but when we can u dont say much"... so later when i asked him if he likes me he said " i dont know" and also when i asked him some other questions he said that he in not sure what he wants and we might be together but needs time to think about it...
i know its confuseing but does this "i dont know" thing mean that he does not like me and does not want to hurt me or is he just confused by my actions and really does not know???
thank you!
2007-02-03 06:23:55 · 9 answers · asked by inlove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
overall many guys are really just indecisive, i'd give him a little more time to figure things out but don't make you're whole focus in him in the mean time. You've told him how you feel so just give it some time i think that the i dont know thing is just a way for him to think about things probly because he does like you and doesnt want to commit unless he's sure he won't hurt you
2007-02-03 06:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by GGbaby13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being the victim of the same situation, I would have to say he is trying not to hurt your feelings. This could mean he likes you, but not as much as that other girl sitting over there, or that he likes you as a friend and only that. In my case, he liked me as a friend, but not enough to talk to me more than once a week.
Speaking from experience, 'young' love will hurt so much, but when you find the right one, it was well worth all the pain and suffering in high school.
I know its hard to let someone go, especially if you really like him. Who knows, maybe theres someone waiting to go out with you but he doesn't feel confident enough to ask you because you're too pretty! Good luck! Hope this helped!
2007-02-03 06:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does not want to hurt your feelings. Plus always, always, always remember that guys like to chase women. It is better to a mystery to them [with your feelings towards them].
Forget about this guy. Find someone else and let them tell you first that they are interested.
2007-02-03 06:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by BR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a guy is not goin 2 tell u directly tht he likes u...it will take time!
2007-02-03 06:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by Ainmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is more than likely that he is confused, if he didn't like you I would think he would tell it to you straight to not get your hopes up.
2007-02-03 06:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by Dathletez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confused. it might be u too. just kool off a little. After he has had his space then be more outgoing and flirtatious
2007-02-03 06:29:36 · answer #6 · answered by funny chic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how is possible if really make friend how she like that and i hope that kind of sectwation i think not be face in friendship
2007-02-03 06:28:56 · answer #7 · answered by sonu is my nick name whatever u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a nice way of telling you they dont like you in that way....
2007-02-03 06:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
retty much means he doesnt like you... but he just doesnt want to hurt his feelings
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2007-02-03 06:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by JB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋