I do still love him..
Which is going to make it even harder for me. He's coming around to my house tomorrow, so i will do it then.
If you read my previous questions, you will understand why I'm breaking up with someone i'm still in love with...
2007-02-03 06:22:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why not just a quick txt msg?
2007-02-03 06:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by Not Ecky Boy 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If you still love this bloke then you need to sit down with him and explain exactly how you feel. Its not a case of how are you going to do it unless you expect people to say( send a text) He is coming round so thats a start!
Firstly make sure your in the house alone, it will be embarrassing if your whole family know you have just dumped the guy.
2nd- dont give him the wrond idea when he gets there by giving him a huge hug and kiss as thats not fair!
Sit him down and tell him why you dont want to be with him anymore, honesty is the best policy and if you do it properly maybe you can still be friends.
I have not read your previous questions(cant find them) but to be honest it seems mad breaking up with someone you Love- Love doesnt come around all the time and you should hold on to it!!
Good luck
2007-02-03 06:30:24 · answer #2 · answered by kirsty m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't find your previous questions. But if you do still love him, be careful, you could regret breaking it off with him. It's been two years, so you guys have a connection there. But I don't know your reasons, so I can't really give you informed advice. Breaking up is hard, so make sure it's right.
2007-02-03 06:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont appear to have asked any previous questions
anyway, all you can do is be straight forward and honest, tell him exactly what the problem is and why you're breaking up with him, let him ask questions. say you think its best if you dont see each other as friends at least for a couple of months (as this just makes things worse)
good luck, I hope its not too upsetting
2007-02-03 06:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by monkeynuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't have sight of your previous quest but i would say to you if you break with a friend of 2 year standing its become part of your life and as you say you love him then why not stand back and time can be a wonderful way of sorting out a problem which if you go ahead you may have deep regrets/ think about it Emily it can be resolved if you want it to be. Good Luck
2007-02-03 06:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't read your previous questions,it will be difficult to break up with someone you love,but do it face to face,there is nothing worse than finishing with someone by text message or over the phone.Hope everything goes ok for you.
2007-02-03 06:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by Trace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best way is to be honest. If your reason is because of violence do it round a friends house with your friend in the other room. If for other reasons then maybe somewhere quiet but near to somewhere busy.
Don't know what your bf is like so I guess thats the best way. But honesty is the best policy!!
2007-02-03 07:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually .. im sorry but i missed your question earlier ... well if it is necesary to break up with him than .. just tell him your reason and say that you would still want to keep in touch with him but you guys cant keep going out because of whatever happened ... maybe he will have an explaination to why it happened and you guys wont have to break up after all ...
Goodluck and im sorry you have to do this ... im sure this is a really hard expirience for you!! =(
2007-02-03 06:27:42 · answer #8 · answered by xochick18ox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Tell him the reasons why you want to end it but please do it face to face but in a public place not your house?! Honesty is always the best way because in future rships he will remember what he did to lose you and try not to make the same mistakes.
2007-02-03 06:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by samfisher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would get one of your best friends to do it. But i'm really confused why are you breaking up with him if you still love him? But anyway thats your personal space. I hope things go well for u. =]
2007-02-03 06:34:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant find any previous questions but make sure you do the right thing we cant tell you how to do it
2007-02-03 06:58:18 · answer #11 · answered by sweetness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋