my parents always invite this guy over (hes 15). he is soooooooooooooo anoying. REALLY REALLY annoying. but my parents like him so he always comes to my house. how do i tell my parents CONVINCINGLY that i really dont want him to come anymore? i hve told them nicely and very respectfully that i cant stand him and would aprieciate that he didnt come anymore. what can i do?
2007-02-03 06:20:43 · 10 answers · asked by that one girl from that one band 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Arrange a trip to a movie. Then go to a university library and research as to what it is that drives you insane when your with this twit. Once the required info is gathered, collated, and readable take it to your parents. THIS IS THE PROBLEM. you say, they'll have trouble ignoring the findings. If you show the young man is clinical, well, send a copy to his parents. Maybe he'll get 90 days skiing Raleigh Hills. Start with pediatric psychiatry, then to the trendy stuff, ADD, Bi-polar, Behavioral disorders. Manic depressive, There lots to do, lets get cracking.
2007-02-03 06:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he comes over be polite and excuse yourself to your room..stay there til he's gone..when he leaves be very blunt that he can come over with your parents invite but you DO NOT like him...handle it respectfully so you dont get in to trouble, but be honest at the same time.
2007-02-03 14:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your parents are trying to play match maker. They are allowed to have over whoever they want but that doesn't mean you have to be there. I would call before I would go visit the parents and make sure that this guy wasn't going to be there. If he shows up i would leave. You doing this will show your parents that you are setting boundaries and that you are definitly not interested.
2007-02-03 14:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you something you wont want to hear, but your parents do have a right to invite someone whose company they enjoy to visit in their home.
What you can do is make yourself scarce every time he is around. Hang out in your room and listen to music or go to a friend's place to get away from him.
2007-02-03 14:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by Cynthia D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have already told your parents how you feel. then when you know hes coming over make plans on doing something with another friend, or stay in your room and do your homework just avoid him. good luck.
2007-02-03 14:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore! Thats all you can do. Of course you can play a lil game and just set up your friend onto something faul like he was tryin to do something to you or whateva, or say that something was lost in the house.
2007-02-03 14:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the boy not want to come, by embarrassing him or something. Or tell your parents you heard something really bad about him (I don't advocate lying, but obviously they don't understand that you really can't stand him). Or maybe tell them WHY you can't stand him. Exactly. what he did, how he acts, what is so annoying etc.
2007-02-03 14:25:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do your parents invite a 15year old? You did not tell us that.
2007-02-03 14:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by supersonic332003 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could ask your parnets that you would like to talk to them and then let them know just how you feel about this person and you should just open and honest with them
2007-02-03 14:26:18 · answer #9 · answered by rose_santafe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you really like him. Maybe you should go on a date with him.
2007-02-03 14:25:14 · answer #10 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋