Every time when his with me...his ALWAYS in a bad mood!!
he says he cares for me..
he says some mean stuff's!..
and his suffered so much in his childhood...his been through sh1t!
and everytime I tell him some good stuff 2 make him feel better he says..''I know u dont care''..''I know that you only feel sorry for me''!
and he said that he is sorry for always being in a bad mood..
but still.....I cant take this anymore...its always trouble,fighting,than we get along...hugs..''kisses''..and than another argument!..
and where not even in a serious relationship!
he was never like this..but I think Im begining 2 know him better.
so the Q is:..is this normal?
2007-02-03 06:19:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, he has issues. Tell him to go to counseling or to drop the bad attitude or else you will dump him. This is abunch of crap and as long as you aren't married, you don't HAVE to deal with it.
2007-02-03 06:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy has issues that he hasn't resolved. Those issues are keeping him from opening up to you. Sound to me like he's lacking self esteem and confidence and no it's not normal to fight ALL the time. But if you're not in a serious relationship, then forget the guy let him be someone else's problem.
2007-02-03 06:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by Snake Dr. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not u sld break up with him for him
because heres the thing he has trouble expressing his feelings and frustrations and he does it negativaly and he needs to learn how to do that before he can be in a relationship
also hes just going to drag u down and u dont want that do u?
u want a give, give relationship and he wants more from it then u can give so tell him u cant be in a relationship with him if he doesnt recognize that there is two of u and if he doestn stop letting his past impede his future
2007-02-03 06:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by leandrasmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is normal for him may not be normal for you. His past sounds sort of like he may have lived in abuse and yours ability to care about making his life better says to me you were brought up in a home full of caring and love. He may not know how to be any different from that which he knows and sometimes people who come from that sort of background really need years of counseling before that can change for them. You cannot make his life change by being how sweet you are. He can only change if he chooses to and seeks out the way himself. You may be setting yourself up to be in actual danger by this guy. One day the mean stuff he says may turn to a gun in your face and his anger may take you out. Find a way to get out of this relationship while you still can.
2007-02-03 06:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ha ha....being in bad mood always ,doesn't know to enjoy the time with a girl, always lamenting, not making fun of the atmosphere......u ask 'is this normal?'
Just think again. Tell him your time is precious and you don't want to ruin it by crying all the time....you will see the differance. if he doesn't change he is not for you.
2007-02-03 06:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by William K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No run for your life!!! You may be on the verge of an abusive relationship. If it's not serious GET OUT NOW!! He's got to work thru those demons on his own. He needs help to get over his issues, but trust me, you cannot do it for him. Leave. You don't want to be there when it gets violent.
2007-02-03 06:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by HuskersRock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes normal to extent but it sounds like he has a real depression problem sometimes people who are depressed act like that and dont really understand why but if hes saying you dont care etc. then hes looking for pitty or he really is depressed take him to see his doc. they will know and the drugs they put ya on really help good luck
2007-02-03 06:25:44 · answer #7 · answered by ibebarbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is going through some difficult times in his life. Try asking him what going on, with his answer see how your gonna help him. If he continues to act this way, I suggest you separate.
2007-02-03 06:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by Dathletez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not normal! He has very low self esteem and he's taking it out on you, tell him to grow up and you need to find someone else! It's only going to get worse!
2007-02-03 06:23:41 · answer #9 · answered by medicmicki67 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probally feels jealous of u...u say he went thru stuff as a child...he probally feels like u deserve someone better...he's just scared that yall will get close & u'll find someone else..u need to tell him directly how u feel bout him & try to get him to open up his feelings for u...it will all be ok...good luck..
2007-02-03 06:24:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋