Okay, So I think i like this guy. i told all my freinds and stuff that I like him, but i'm not soo sure that i do. I think that maybe I am trying to convince myself that i'm over some guy i liked last year, but i'm really not. I sit next to him in one of my classes, and we flirt. we did last year to, but i then asked him out and he said no. He doesn't have a gf and people tell me that he likes me but im scared, i don't know what to do!! I mean, i keep trying to convince myself that i like the other guy, but i don't know. I honestly think that i don't like the guy from last year anymore, but maybe i do. Maybe im just trying to hide my true feelings with this new guy. I've known the new guy i like longer then the other guy, and we flirt to and i know for a fact that this guy likes me. I don't know what to do!!! please help I am so confused right now i don't know what to do with myself! Pleaseee help. It will be greatly apreciated!! <3<3<3
2007-02-03 06:02:10 · 12 answers · asked by You Are My Sunshine<333 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, you have to realize that while this seems like a huge deal to you, its not. This sort of thing will happen many times in your life and the first fifty at least won't amount to anything.
Its not a big deal, so relax and have fun with it.
Now, if you're going to survive in the dating scene, you have to reduce your emotional involvement. The first thing you have to do is learn to be cool about things. Do what you like and have fun with it, but do not overly invest your emotions in anything. The facts must say you've found a great match that will easily turn into a successful longterm relationship before you let your heart run amok. Everything else is just fun and games.
Your current situation is a great place to start. You met a guy and liked him. You asked him out. He turned you down, so thats it. Passing up an opportunity with you marks him as a definite loser. Forget about him and move on.
Also, spelling and grammar are hot. Chrisits is a misspelled form of crisis.
2007-02-03 06:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by Nonny D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's OK to date several people at once. That's the only way you know for sure whether you like one person or another. If that one guy said no to you, then move on. The only reason you are still obsessed with him is because you aren't going out with anybody else. Once you start going out with a bunch of boys and you realize that he is no big loss, you will stop thinking about him.
Don't be such a drama queen. This is not a crisis. A crisis is if your mom and dad died all of a sudden in a car crash, or your family lost your place to live, or if you suffered a severe burn to your whole body and had to be hospitalized for a year. What you are experiencing is nothing. Don't be such a drama queen, and maybe boys will start to like you more.
2007-02-03 14:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sax M 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The guy you liked from last year said no, so that's out.and the guy you think you like doesn't have a gf so build up the courage to ask him out. we all have a fear of rejection but you have friends to back you up.
2007-02-03 14:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should go for the new guy...he likes you hon...invite him to the movies with ur friends to or something and jus see how it goes...the other guys who flirts with u but wont go out with you is jus trying to get some action..trust a fellow 13 year old hormone-crazy boy,me. Jus try the newer guy...sounds like he likes you and you like him.
2007-02-03 14:08:46 · answer #4 · answered by colin J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is ridiculous. Ask the kid out, if he says no he says no. You're 13, any guy you date now is eventually going to leave you or vise versa.
2007-02-03 14:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by sallana87 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah i think yew should go wit the new guy becuz yew noe for a fact dat he likes yew nd dat yew nd him can be something nd the other guy if somrthing were going tew happen between ya'll would've already did nd i dont think yew should waste your time anymore..!good luck.!
2007-02-03 14:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by loveNn him 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You call that a CRISIS? and your only 13. My god you are in for some big surprises when you grow up.
2007-02-03 14:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't go out with any of them. Who says you need a boyfriend?
2007-02-03 14:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I could make it without Yahoo Answers in my life, so can you.
2007-02-03 14:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's your biggest crisis, you're one lucky kid.
Why not just do your work in class?
2007-02-03 14:09:05 · answer #10 · answered by dude 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋