my life is filled with confusion, i love one who does not love me,
so how do i let go,
should the truth be set free?
2007-02-03 05:45:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am not as weird as i seem to many,
and i am wise in a way,
i like him, he's dreamy,
and did i mention im half gay?
2007-02-05 09:06:10 · update #1
You have to decide for yourself what will make you a stronger person. When you are having fun other people will be attracted to you, when you are depressed they won't be.
First, hang out with friends who like you, start new hobbies...just always let yourself know your skills and close friends will always be the foundation of your life and relationships ultimately come second to that in finding happiness...only in best cases is your relationship also your best friend, and even in those cases he should not be your "only" best friend.
Second, don't be hard on yourself but take a few guesses why the guy does not like you.
Some of these will help you deal with most future potential boyfriends, remember the main goal is for you to get stronger and more attractive for other people, not necessarily to get with the guy you want now.
For example, if you are a bit overweight, try working out. If you don't do any guy-ish activities he likes (sports, skating...) try a few. If you have a tough time feeling at home at parties go to some with your friends until it comes naturally.
So just get out there and enjoy life, get outside yourself and learn new things. When you are you there having a blast the right guy will find you, even if that guy isn't this one and, perhaps more importantly, even if that guy doesn't find you immediately you worry about it so much because you'll be feeling so much better. :-)
2007-02-03 05:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by M S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that you have to do is start going out with friends and make this world fun for you. if you sit at home alone all the time it will be lonely for you. so go out meet people and have fun, maybe you will find someone that you will enjoy being with. good luck.
2007-02-03 13:48:58 · answer #2 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
souds like a tragic drama story to me. its up to you to decide. how about ignoring the person for a while and see if the person gets curious with your action. you can actually make the person love you by being completely the opposite of what you were doing to him. we call that reverse psychology. if nothing happens try to make use of your time looking for a new one or doing something worthwhile.
2007-02-03 13:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by ARNIWAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes for a lovely poem..........maybe writing poetry is your forte'. And if you really love someone who does not love you, then it really isn't meant to be is it? Because love comes to two, not one.
2007-02-03 14:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly love someone you should let them free,if you let a person know you love them but they do not love you,that's not going to help you is it.don't rush to find love it will find you.
2007-02-03 14:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by ainsley h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confusing. I don't know if you were actually asking a question or not, but anyway... Sure, why not.
2007-02-03 13:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but if your love is only a one way street..you may as well get back on the freeway !!!!!
2007-02-03 13:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is deep. You need to pray and relax your mind.
2007-02-03 13:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray & ask God to give you the guidance you need. Good luck to you!
2007-02-03 13:53:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋