ok so im 17 my bf is 19 we have been together for 5 years. we really love eachother and we are both out of highschool. we live together and we really want a baby, but i dont think this is the right time, altho i still want a baby by him, what should i do? i no he wouldnt leave me but i dont think we should have a baby rite now, what do i do??
oh yeah his son lives with us, his name is angel and hes 2, his mom left him at our house and never came bac, so we kept him, so he thinks im his mommy
2007-02-03 05:44:46 · 9 answers · asked by LUYU 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes been living with us since he was 3 months old, umm so raising a baby wouldnt be the problem, its just i kinda wanna finish school, oh and his son is 2 cuz he cheated on me, i graduated last year he graduated 2 years ago, he is in his 2nd year of school and im in my 1st year
2007-02-03 05:47:02 · update #1
hes a good daddy tho
2007-02-03 05:58:37 · update #2
ok im lying, trying to make excuses for him, HES NOY A GOOD FATHER
2007-02-04 06:22:06 · update #3
Well, it is your desicion on what you want to do. Hopefully, you guys worked out the cheating thing out and you trust him now and you know he won't do it again. I think you are really strong because you are 17 and you are raising a child and I am sure you really love him. I am sure you really love your boyfriend too. I would wait until marriage because then you know you are in a commited relationship and everything. I am only 16 and I have wanted a baby for about a year. I have no idea why I want one so bad but I really do. The only reason why I don't is because I think about the future of the baby and him/her not having a good family because the man I am with may not be the man I want to be with later on in life. and not to mention that my parents would just KILL me. lol. if your parents are ok with it and everything then I would say go for it...but make sure he is the one you truly want to be with.
Good luck with everything :)
2007-02-03 05:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by KATiE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 19 and me and my bf were jointly for 4 years and we are not even planning a wedding ceremony immediately. we've talked about it and ought to decide on to sometime yet we neither individuals are financially waiting for something like that. Wait till you get out of school. Get an finished time interest, a automobile, and ought to pay your human being charges and stuff first. i'm finally on my own and that i have discovered a lot that i imagine ought to help me when I do get married, because i'm much better responsible now. yet besides, yet another element, the way my BF and that i see that is, If we were meant to be jointly, what's the frenzy? For us there is none, because the time isn't proper. i decide on to have an extremely good wedding ceremony and an extremely good existence thereafter, and that i understand that if we jumped into it now it would not be tremendous because we should be broke, and fewer than pressure out, and who's time-honored with of what else. and those are the sorts of issues which may convey about separation and divorce and that i absolutely do not decide on that. Please do not forget that you're nonetheless so youthful and the longer you wait the better prepared you'd be. you shouldn't ought to ask a gaggle of people on-line if the time is sweet besides. it truly is once try to understand that it's not. at the same time as the time is sweet you'll understand. And no you may actually have that ought to help you're making up your ideas. desire this helps. solid success.
2016-12-03 09:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by endicott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am glad you are helping him with the baby. Even though you are not his biological mother, sure you are his mother. Because the father or the mother is not only the one who give birth a baby, is more than that. A mom or a father is also the one who raise the baby. So you are his mom.
About having your own baby, let me give you this advise: You´d better finish school and then think about having a baby.
I wish you luck and don´t hurry up about this matter, you have a lot of time to think about that subject and a lot of time to have babies.
2007-02-03 05:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by ஜ☆§weet Angel☆ஜ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and finish school first. You are only 17 so you still have plenty of time to wait. Wait a couple of more years to make sure your really ready.
2007-02-03 06:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by precious1too 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
17? You are way too young to be thinking in having a baby...You won't never will atrap a man with geting pregnat and having a baby...He will leave you anyway..What about school?
Go to school...Get your degree and then think more about if you want to have a baby...Trust me you won't want to do that so young...
2007-02-03 06:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no please don't do it i have a baby and i can't go to college 'cause i have to work. and don't fall in love with that baby because his mather will come one day and take him so you are gona suffer. how good is he as a daddy, if he did't wanna hurt you he would never had a baby. he is not going to leave you 'cause he needs a mommy for his son and he wants you to have his baby so that way you will never leave him.
2007-02-03 05:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Wait until you finish school.
2007-02-03 05:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you dont ...for real girl ...you should wait its so early in your life there lots of time for that and only one chance to be young...
2007-02-03 05:57:44 · answer #8 · answered by nate7799_98223 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too young.
2007-02-03 05:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋