i am dating this guy and we are getting serious. i plan on going to college in september to a university outside of the city, though i will still be in the state. i don't know if i should stay here and go to college or if i should leave. and i wouldn't be onsidering this if he wasn't worth it. what should i do?
2007-02-03 05:40:52 · 11 answers · asked by Natalia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go to college, if he's worth it and he feels the same, he'll wait. Think of your future, he might be 'the one' now, but you've both got a lot of growing up to do. You might want something completely different in a partner in a few years time. There are planes, trains, other types of transport and loads of holidays to catch up with him.
2007-02-03 05:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by sharon r 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is coming from an old lady who knows from similar experience, go to school where you will meet the needs to prepare for your future career. If this relationship was meant to last, time will reveal the answer. If you sell short your future by choosing anything less than the fulfillment of your dreams, you cannot make it up later on. Guys are a dime a dozen, but your mind is a terrible thing to waste.
2007-02-03 13:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How serious? and what if things don't work out? Is he willing to go with you? What does he think..How long have you had plans to go and did he know you were going when you got into the relationship. Also will you be able to see each other frequently...think about all of these questions...
on the flip side..If you see things working out and he is worth it you might need to follow your heart:)
2007-02-03 13:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first, continue on your plan of life, your worth more than any other man, if he feels you are worth it he will wait and/or follow. Your goal in life of who you want to be is the most important thing, if you were to make a change just because of him and something happened then you will have the regret of what if I had gone, where would I be today.
2007-02-03 13:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by lookingfortrouble1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still young and there's a lot out there that you haven't seen yet. That said, you shouldn't base your education and future career on a guy. Guys will come and go, just like girls will come and go. Base your decision on what's best for you and your future career, and not on your current relationship with your bf. Besides, if he really likes you, he will find a way to make it work.
2007-02-03 13:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by Xfactor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is worth it he will still be with you. That's your ultimate test! I'm European and I studied in Malaysia for 3 years which is 100,000 miles from my country. I just hooked up with a guy in my country before I left and we dated for about 3 months. If u believe it we kept our relationship for 3 years seeing each other twice a year, and since my country is small I could always find out if he cheated on me, and he didn't.
We are still together and I just graduated in college:))
2007-02-03 13:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by Bojana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way to young to be making your life's decisions on another person. As hard as it may be do what you originally planned. Go experience life now or you will regret it for the rest of your life.
2007-02-03 13:50:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should stay their closer to him if hes worth it you wouldnt have to ask but its up to you to find out whats going 2 take you better places
2007-02-03 13:47:27 · answer #8 · answered by Amber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your career, what if you break up, you will be so mad at yourself if you let all that go for a man, get your life first, if its meant to be you will stay together
2007-02-03 13:46:34 · answer #9 · answered by pinklinz@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go where u want to go... if he loves u and cares about u it wont be a problem... just be careful cuz u might be sry for ur choise later
Good luck! ;)))
2007-02-03 13:46:50 · answer #10 · answered by inlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋