i went out with this boy 4 years ago and then when we split up, he went out with my best friend. i know it sounds stupid but i loved him all the time.
When he and Kate(my best m8) split up, we wanted to go back out with each other, but i felt as though it would be going against Kate, so we made a pact, never to go near him in that way again. And i never did, even when he was hassling me to go out with him again.
now i have become really good friends with him again, and i have totally fallen for him, but he has a girlfriend, and lets just say we dont get along. he talks to me loads about her n how he's thinking about dumping her.
i feel so confused, is he stringing me along or is he serious? and what should i do? help please!
2007-02-03 05:39:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this fella has a pattern -- HE DOESN'T LEAVE A GIRL, UNLESS HE'S GOT ANOTHER. Be a friend, not a girlfriend, and point his problem out to him. He can't be alone, and that's scary. You don't want him this way.
2007-02-03 05:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well only you can know whats right but the fact that your asking us says your not sure what to do first things first if hes telling you hes gonna dump her hes trying to see if he does that youll be there for him so he then wont be alone second thing is he could only be telling you this as a friend so if you want my advice if he breaks up with her be there as a friend and see how things go from there then decide
2007-02-03 13:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by ibebarbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, I know this story. I had a friend like that. Called me his girl, "your my girl, you will always be my girl" but only if he had no girl. Then he just up and got married on me. You are his safety net. Your are the one girl he knows loves him unconditionally, but hasn't feeling one for you other than you fill the void till the next one comes along. He suffers from grass is greener itis. Don't be a dummy. Let him go, don't be so readily available to him. He'll keep breaking your heart over and over agian. Sorry, but that's what he's doing.
2007-02-11 11:02:46 · answer #3 · answered by corina381 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy sounds like a jackass. what a player. If you've already fallen for him, stand back up, he's not worth getting mud on your knees for.
You need to stand up for yourself and listen to your head, not your heart. Don't let emotions get in the way, you know what's the right thing to do. Stick with your BFF.
2007-02-03 13:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy seems to note be able to keep a girlfriend, a guy with that kind of pattern is unattractive. Stick with your best friend, and don't go out with this girl again. Find someone who is comittied.
2007-02-11 12:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don’t make someone a priority in your life if you are only an option in theirs. And I am sorry to say but you appear to be an option, its like you are his base point. A lay over!
Stop it! Be a friend, and nothing more. Find someone who respects you.
2007-02-11 04:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is stringing you along because if he didnt have the decency to understand the code that you dont date your ex-girlfriends friends then leave him alone. im glad you still have your friend but keep it that way never choose some dude who is going inbetween friends to have his way. leave him alone.
2007-02-10 22:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by kaybee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Close this fellows chapter 4 ever...its good 4 u...and try to 4get him....,and don't see him any more.,look around ...honey wait 4 ur turn...somebody is there...4 u.....all the best. ...and pls.....pls...never belive him.
2007-02-11 07:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by 2bros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be his friend. If he really liked you, you guys would be together and this wouldn't be an issue.
2007-02-11 13:16:42 · answer #9 · answered by DD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he's change then go for it. But if it does'nt seemed to have changed then end it A.S.A.P.!
2007-02-03 13:51:00 · answer #10 · answered by Torri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋