2007-02-03 05:29:57 · 25 answers · asked by HEARTBROKEN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's about this guy i lost my virginity with....don't worry we were safe. then we broke up. all i do is think about him. but now i still "love" him but i feel happy for him and his new gurl. But i thin k i DO LOVE HIM. i just don't know what to do...plzz help me i think I LOVE HIM!!!
2007-02-03 05:41:33 · update #1
OH YEAH PEOPLE....I HAD MY FIRST REAL BOYFRIEN AT AGE 8....I LASTE 4 MONTHS BROKE ^ THEN ANOTHER 2 AND A HALF MONTHS..
2007-02-03 05:43:48 · update #2
I don't think that age matters when it comes to the heart. My great grand parents were really young when they got married, she we 13 and he was 18, they had 15 children and were married for a LONG time. I think that you can Love some one and just really like some one even adults get that one mixed up, you are the only one who knows if you were really in love or really in like. Age makes no difference.
Your first is always special. I thought for years I was really in love with my first then I met my husband and realized that my heart was so over whelmed with emotion for this man and even though my first was special but I really love this other man, and we have been together for 4 years and have a beautiful daughter.
2007-02-03 05:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not true! I'm 47 and my first love came at age 13. I still love that man to this very day and I don't even ever see him and haven't for many years. I think what you should be thinking is where you might be 10 years from now and how your life might be with or without the one you may now love. My life went on without him and later in life I found out he didn't really love me. He used me and played with my young mind and body. I was only a conquest to him. Even though I now know that about him, he's still special to me and I will never forget the way he made me feel emotionally or sensually. He's still #1 and will forever own a part of my heart. But I'm glad my life went on and now I'm happily married to another for a wonderful 18 years. We will grow old and die together. But he is still my 2nd love!
2007-02-03 05:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, and yes. You are not experienced enough to know true adult love, but you are also at the age to experience the harder love. that is the loves that will shape your attitude towards dating, and how you will deal with it emotionally. My advice is never fall to far, and never hurt to much. (easier said than done)
Lost virginity at 13? Boyfriend at 8? OK, now that is too young. And if the boy was older he should be in court. Where in the hell are your parents? This is classic lead up to being a parent at 15. I don't care how much you think your ready at this age, YOUR NOT.
I thought this was a honest question about making good decisions, this is not, this is a minor trying to justify doing wrong.
2007-02-03 05:37:03 · answer #3 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no, when you are 13 you are just beginning to experience life, the crushes and the lusts of others. Love boils down to if you would give your life over that persons when faced in a situation when the choice is given. Really think about that. Would you step in a bullet for this boy and give your life for him? Is he worth that in reality?
I say no as well because you do love your parents and would do anything for them am I correct? You would do anything not to see your parents hurt or take care of them if needed such as after a surgery or something? You would put the value of their life above your own?
2007-02-03 05:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think what most people mean is that you don't have enough experience to truly understand what love is all about. It's not perfect like on the movies or tv. You have to experience things like being rejected and finding out that some people aren't honest when it comes to relationships to understand what love is.
someday you'll be old and experienced like the rest of us and you will understand that time and age can be valuable teaching tools.
2007-02-03 05:36:05 · answer #5 · answered by DEENIE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you got used for your virginity. that is what happens when you are young. you think to prove you love someone you have to sleep with them. trust me, it isnt love you have for him, it is just missing him. you are only 13 years old. you have no idea what love is. you may like him a lot, but that is not love. you need to lay off of the sex for a while. i cant imagine what you would do if you were pregnant or had a disease at such a tender age. just be a kid. you are so young. you have a lot of time to have sex later on in life.
2007-02-03 07:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to dissagree with the yes people because i was 10 yrs old when i found love we were together always and i thought it wasnt real love but every guy since then i think of my first real love so i do think you know your self when its love and it depends on maturity as well but listen to what your heart says not us were all different
2007-02-03 05:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by ibebarbie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's true - but only insofar as we're all too young to know about love. It's one of those great mysteries you can spend your whole life exploring and still never find all the answers.
On the other hand - that's a wonderful way to spend your life....
2007-02-03 05:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. but when we're that age we do take things a little too deep. that doesn't mean we don't know about love. it just means at that age you gotta understand that even if your relationship doesn't work out you'll love again. but i guess it depends on the person too. if you have a different crush every day then that saying would be true for you.
2007-02-03 05:37:05 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥♫ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes in some ways
no in other
you can't know about being in love with someone because you still don't even know yourself
your body has just started changing etc
it may seem like love but its just extreme liking...you would never die for the person or do anything ANYTHING for them
but yet you should know about loving your parents, siblings and pets
2007-02-03 05:38:46 · answer #10 · answered by bob123456789 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋