well, my friend who I'm always asking questions about said last week we should go to ruth's chris steak house (very expensive nice restaurant). She then continues, "just to say that I've been there." Was this a sideways way of asking me on a date?
2007-02-03 05:25:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
funny thing is i actually intend to pay because whenever we go out to dinner or lunch i always end up paying. it just seems natural that i would pay.
2007-02-03 05:34:14 · update #1
Oh, this is indeed a date
2007-02-03 05:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're asking if it's a date because it's a pretty expensive place and you don't know where that leaves you in terms of picking up the check then there's a way to bring it up without making it too weird.
Instead of going along and then looking like to crazy people when the bill comes (and I've been to ruth's chris..you will look like crazies when the bill comes,lol)--just tell her before hand you're not really sure that you can afford a ruth's chris dinner right now. If she says okay maybe another time. Then it was totally a date and she was expecting you to pay. Most likely she'll either offer up choice number 2 or she'll ask you where you want to go.
If you have the money to pay and she knows you do then call her a couple days before and confirm you're still on for your "date". Ask her if she wants you to pick her up. If she says no--its sounding less like a date.
Or--you could always go with the 100% straight foward way and ask her if this is her way of letting you take her out ona date..but say it with a smile and sense of humore. It's kind of a cool way to ask her and get clarification, and it's kind of cute that she knows you want to take her out.
2007-02-03 05:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by dapoetic1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's only one way to find out! But I'd go dutch just in case you're not into your friend for romance or whatnot. Have fun, and remember: work your way in from the outside with all those freakin' forks and spoons. Haha! Fancy dinners are the worst. Date or not, they turn me into a basket case.
2016-05-23 23:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just maybe all she wanted was someone to go eat there with her to eat so that she wouldn't eat there alone. And maybe she might tell you something about it when you'll are there. But if your not interested with what she has in mind just take money so you can pay your share. But if she just wants to eat there before you go tell her you don't have any money and if she still offers to pay enjoy a free meal.
2007-02-03 05:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it was. Maybe she just wanted to try something new and different from the usual.
Not necessary meaning it was a date!
2007-02-03 05:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by Torri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly but it depends on the relationship you have with her already. Is she paying? Enjoy it either way!! xx
2007-02-03 05:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by katyllou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a date to me, try asking her out to dinner somewhere you've never been and then say, "just to say you've been there" . Then you say, "ok, its a DATE then!!"
2007-02-03 05:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by pookiebear24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't take it that way unless she was giving me other signs that she liked me (I'm straight though). Some girls just like luxury and it would look stupid if she goes by herself.
2007-02-03 05:29:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, is your friend interested in you romantically or does she just want to say she actually eat there?
2007-02-03 05:30:07 · answer #9 · answered by di12381 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not unless she is paying. how does she act otherwise?
2007-02-03 05:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋