my cousin livz in cayman island(on left of jamaica).i seriously love him,itz nt an infatuation...i luv hm since i wz 5 yrs old....i luv hm a lot n cant tl him cz v r bro n sis n if ne1 in r famly wl no dat i luv hm den im gone 4evr n i don want dat......plz help me......i do chat with him bt cnt keep mah feelngz infrnt of him az i don know whethr he likes me or nt......he do like me bt az a sistr
plz tel me how shal i tl him dat i luv him a lot
PLZ HELP ME OUT.......... I AM SERIOUSLY VVVVVVVRY DEPRESSED N KNOW DAT YOU WIL DEFINATLY HELP ME...........PLZ THINK TWICE B4 ANSWERIN
2007-02-03 05:18:08 · 26 answers · asked by san 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a cousin is just like a brother and u say u like him... don't ever develop such feelings and concentrate on Ur studies!
2007-02-04 21:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes love isn't something you can control, but him being your cousin can have a lot of problems. I think it may be just an infatuation, I had a crush on my cousin at one point, but I was able to move passed it. But if you think that you are really in love, you need to tell him or tell someone else in your family. 10 years is a long time for knowing someone and it may not be easy to ignore your feelings. What you need to do is ask yourself if this really is love. You're only 15 and I didn't find love until I was 19. But you need to tell him or some other family member you can talk to. Good Luck!
2007-02-03 05:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, it helps to type so many more people can understand your issue... Second if its since you were five I think it's just an infattuation you're afriad to let go of.... also this is called INCEST... You can never marry a family member in the United States... Also in fact this is frowned upon in most societies and just WEIRD... I also think you might want to refer to your first answer..... Also incest causes many deformation irregularities and mental and physical retardation.... Stay Away From Family Members !!!!!!!!!
2007-02-03 05:24:18 · answer #3 · answered by Tyler™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are at a vulnerable age for love. Don't confuse love and possession. You can have close friends. You can like them, love them, and enjoy them. That doesn't mean you need to take them home. Enjoy your teen years. There will be plenty of time for love.
P.S. stay away from the relatives
2007-02-03 05:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Isn't your cousin's brother you 1st cousin? That is odd... are you sure it's romantic love, or is it family love? Try to stop thinking about him and buy a spelling dictionary. Get a new guy to focus on.
2007-02-03 05:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say "hooked on Phonics"
get a boyfriend and try to forget about him, cause what you are feeling is sick and there is no way he feels the same. You probubly are reading your feelings wrong and are extremly jealous of him, or something
2007-02-03 05:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you could love him but you might not i thought i was in love with my half-brother but i was emotionally vonrable and I loved the protection and comfort he provided.
2014-08-14 13:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love him.........you are attracted towards him. nd tell me did you knew the meaning of love when you were 5 years old?? A very big joke for me. Open your eyes my child and have a glass of milk.
2007-02-06 23:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Stealth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know your problem because the same I am facing....exactly same situation.Can I contact you, do reply me at my profile see E-mail ID there.PLZ
The solution is nothing but I am trying to ignore her so atlest she could forget me and her life will not become hell.
2007-02-03 06:26:45 · answer #9 · answered by 2424333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need help? why not help your self? think twice, you can not get married to you cousin brother, so forget about him think about your study if you not take my advise than you will regret later. do some yoga breathing exercises.
2007-02-03 11:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by CHANDU P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋