i am 32,female,punjabi family. i married ten yrs ago n living happy married life.i got 7 miscarriges.we dont have any child.my husband is 36 and well sattle. from last 1yr he is having a girl friend.one day i called her when my husband was not at home.i talk to her nicely. she told ;i am ready to stay with you and your hubby together if u dont mind and happy.i love him too much . and she says ur husband must marry me first , after that only her parents allow her to living together as i told u above.my husband have no problem .he also want to live like that . but tell me what to do now ? i am confused .
2007-02-03 05:04:26 · 7 answers · asked by crab 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i dont like it!
you dont have to let her in your house!
why your man wants to have another wife or G/F?!
dont let him .
2007-02-03 05:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by M*K*H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband started having an affair one year ago. Am I correct so far? Now she wants to come live with you and your husband and be a big happy family BUT she says she has to marry your husband. Hmmm! Not legal two wives, is it? So you would have to divorce, then she moves in and it won't be long before YOU ARE OUT! Two women cannot share one man (for very long). Women are jealous people and the competition will be too much for everyone involved. The answer is NO, she cannot move in with you and your husband and your husband will need to choose one of you. If it's you, you will probably live the rest of your life being cheated on. If that's okay with you, alright then. If it's not, you need to leave and find a man that will cherish you and only you so you will know what it feels like, once again, to have a mate that is trustworthy, a gentleman and admirable. Do you have any respect for yourself? Do you feel any self worth? If you say yes to either or both of these questions, you have no choice but to go away and pursue something worth while! Be strong! Don't be fooled into this romance of three idea! It does NOT work out!
2007-02-03 05:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, the question would have been really hilarious had u not been serious about it.
I mean, what the heck, all the people involved here are really messed up or something.
Won't answer this question, it seems u are either madly madly in love or absolutely childish to be asking such a question.
Don't know what to say, u have to make sense of the mess urself and guess needs some introspection and thought to what kind of people u want in ur life.
Hope this makes sense, don't know what else to say.
2007-02-04 19:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by 123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are opportunities is both techniques, a million- they actually are merely good pals and also you ought to have self belief in ur husband extra. 2- she needs to get decrease back ur husband. in spite of everything i think that even after marriage, ur courting can nevertheless be bestfriend because u adult adult males are tender with one yet another the most and are the nearest to at least one yet another the most and understand one yet another the most. u may be the girls human beings that he loves and a bestfriend jointly. yet when i have been you, i ought to sense jealous too. because in case you hate her ideas-set meaning it should be really beechy or something for u to sense this way. which could really deliver difficulty. and therefore, "2" will are available. yet in case you protest in her transferring in, it may reason some conflict between u and ur husband. and that truthfully wont be good. in spite of everything, i do not imagine it truly is a good idea for her to stay with you adult adult males, yet i should be difficulty if u protest in this idea. you ought to really sit and refer to ur husband. i'm no longer constructive what type of guy ur husband is, if u have self belief him alot and if he's those type that isn't cheat on you, then perchance you ought to have some faith in him that no count number how that woman flirt consisting of your darling, he gained't fall for her back and ought to reject her. playstation , if u really gonna sit and refer to ur husband and ur husband tries to nd the communication quickly, i recommend u don have self belief him. because, he ought to in all likelihood fall contained in the catergory of those who do not evaluate about their better 1/2's emotions that a lot. He might want to pay interest if he feels and is conscious how uneasy ur feeling. If no longer, i don imagine he can make a good husband. really. truthful.
2016-11-02 05:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe for you this is not a good solution. maybe you are really in love and don't want to share.
for some, it would be okay, as they would enjoy a friendship and children in the home.
is there an older person in your family you can talk to?
most americans think one wife, no girlfriend, miscarriages or not.
2007-02-03 05:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are jealous then you should just tell her to get the **** out of your house
2007-02-03 05:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by vin c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, if u guys are married, why does he have a girl ????
in other words... NO !!!!!
2007-02-03 05:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by Rawr/iluvu/rawr♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋