My fiance and I aren't really religious. Where can I find examples of wedding vows that we could use?

Question

Thanks to everyone that gave sincere answers.

Answer 1

You can easily adapt any vows to your style.


Here's one example:


These things I promise I will do
That life may grant you ample grace
Because I love and cherish you:

I vow to treasure what is true
That I might touch whom I embrace:
These things I promise I will do.

I'll build a garden in your view
That with sweet fruit will stone replace
Because I love and cherish you.

I vow to love each day anew,
For love must dance through time and space:
These things I promise I will do.

I vow to make your terrors few
And then with you those demons face
Because I love and cherish you.

And now, as we make one of two,
A passage we cannot retrace,
These things I promise I will do
Because I love and cherish you.

Answer 2

There are many sites that assist in writing wedding vows, and I have included one that has several non-traditional ones. Try Googling "wedding vows", and I'm sure you will discover something that suits you both. Good luck.

Answer 3

Repeating words you don't believe and feel isn't the way to go, instead write your own vows. This gives a personal touch and lets you express exactly what drew you two together!

Answer 4

We had our vows custom-written for us by a friend who is a brilliant writer. Perhaps you can find someone amongst your friends or acquaintances who has a knack for writing, and they will help you! Also, you can google "wedding vows", I found some examples of what I wanted, and my friend took it and ran with it.

Answer 5

Search these sites... Also type in "Wedding Vows" or non tradional Wedding Vows in any search engine and see what comes up.

www.weddingchannel.com

www.ultimatewedding.com/articles/index.php?action=section&sec=37/

www.trinitydreams.com/info/Weddings/wedding_vows.html

Answer 6

Whether you are religious or not, you will be asked the 'Question of Intent' the, "Do you take ___ to be your lawfully wedded ___..... 'til death you do part".

What you promise each other is up to you.

http://www.weddingministers.com/vows/Vows_Traditional_Civil%20Ceremony_Standard.htm

http://www.weddingtips.com/wedding-vows/standard-civil-ceremony.html

Answer 7

There is a really good book called "The Perfect Words for the Perfect Wedding" or you do what we did. We found a superhelpful place called customweddingsolutions.com and asked them for ideas. they gave us some really good ones. and we are using one of them.

good luck

Answer 8

my fiance and i aren't religious either. i am thinking we are just going to write our own like a poem or something personal. some couples do this even if they are religious. i don't have any sites or anything...sorry:( i would suggest just making it personal!
have fun with it

Answer 9

I vow not to fart on you during the night when I am going down on you....

Answer 10

"do you promise to pick up your dirty socks off the floor and not leave the wet towels on the bed?"

"Can I kick your *** if I see you looking at another ***** even if she is better looking than me"

"I promise to give you a ******* every other night"