i don't want to go to church anymore!!!!!!!!! what should i do? my parents make me go??

Answer 1

it depends on your age, if a minor, then you must do as your parents say,,,,, also, what are your objections to going to church? are they religious, meaning you have decided you are not comfortable with their religion and wish to follow another? if that is the case, try explaining your feelings to your parents,,,

Answer 2

I have been there, I know how you feel. Why do you not want to go to church? If it is because you just don't want to go because it is boring, too early, too long, etc, you are probably just gonna have to deal with it. If it is because you have other beliefs you will need to tell your parents. It may not matter though. You may have to deal with it until you are old enough to simply say "no". I had other beliefs when I was young and was forced thru years of Catholic Church and CCD classes. I am now Buddhist and my Mom is dealing with it.
EDIT: ZHUKOV: LOL I love your answers,standing up and yelling "I'm Gay" in a Catholic church would definitely get you a fast one way ticket out!

Answer 3

I'd simply tell them that you have thought about it and that you don't feel that church is something you want to participate in. If they threaten to punish you (ie: removing privileges such as TV, game console, etc.) tell them that they are being tyrannical and unfair, but take whatever punishment they decree and show them that you are mature and that you will stand by your decision not to go to church.

If your parents physically punish you for not agreeing to go to church, call child services and explain the situation. If they physically drag you to church, then resist them the entire time, it will be more embarrassing to them if they have to physically drag you into church like a protester. Don't scream or cry, just don't physically move of your own accord. Your parents may lose their temper, but if they hit you in public they could face criminal charges so they won't likely do it.

Good for you, by the way. If you're old enough to make this decision, then you're well on your way to being a free-thinker.

Answer 4

Since you really don't have the option of not going since you live under your parents' roof, all you can do is make the best of it. Figure out why you don't want to go. Make some friends there. Get involved in the activities. I had to go to church every Sunday and Wednesday. I made the best of it and made some really good friends who I am still friends with 15 years later.

Answer 5

I don't think there is much you can do, depending on how old you are.

Maybe you could pretend to be sick. That will only work so many times. Try to make the best of church, like making new friends or hanging out with existing friends whenever you go. Church can be boring sometimes but there are always opportunities to socialize or whatever.

Answer 6

Be glad for your parents' wisdom even though you don't understand it yet. Go. Go willingly. Put your own likes and dislikes aside for awhile; truly, it's not all about you. Get over yourself. Be submissive and obedient to your parents. Read the book of Ephesians in the Bible, which explains what your attitude should be towards your parents.

Talk to a youth worker at your church. Tell this person that you don't really want to go and ask him or her to help you get more involved. Ask for special jobs that will help you feel more connected. If you don't like the youth group or your Sunday School class, ask tohelp with the little kids. Do something for others.

Answer 7

Tell your parents why you don't want to go to church anymore, tell them. Or you may tell God why you don't want to go to church anymore. When I was in elementary school, my father was angry at me for not going to the church on sunday. I told him why. And I told God, " Lord, if only our house is not very far from your church, I would attend mass every Sunday." God heard the prayer. Months after, my family and I travelled far across the seas to dwell in the city. And our house was very near the church. So to keep a promise to God, I make it a point l to attend a mass every sunday. No lightning, thunder, earthquake, or sickness can deter me from attending the mass. I am so afraid to break the promise.

Answer 8

Come up with a really good reason why what you want to do instead of going to church will be better for you. I'm sure your parents have your best interest in mind.

Answer 9

really depends how old you are and if you actually have a decent reason apart from not wanting to get out of bed! One way to get out of it wud b to get a wkend job (clashes with church time), they'd respect you alot more for your independence and self-sufficiency as well. Or take up a hoobie or a sport which takes place on a sunday morning. If you have a reason ie you dont really believe in God then mayb u shud tell them, altho think they'll b pretty downhearted about it so take it gently. Say you feel like a fraud and dont want to upset them etc. Gd luck.

Answer 10

Unfortunately, being supported by your parents means being subject to your parents' rules. You can try having a frank and mature discussion as to why you don't want to go to church (saying things you don't believe? Boring? Preacher seems mean?) Maybe you can try a compromise--go to another church (perhaps with friends or relatives), for example.

Answer 11

Try talking to your parents in a mature way and explain to them why you don't want to go to church. If they don't buy it, just be a good kid and go. When you're 18 or move out, you can do what you want.