plz help me ! ! ! ! ! !
2007-02-03 04:27:32 · 16 answers · asked by sexy beast 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being in love with someone and being loved by them are two entirely different conditions. We all yearn for the love of people we love. But the truth is always hard and we are disappointed. That's the fate of love whether we accept it or not.
You are not the only person on the earth who has felt this way. There are perhaps millions, including me, who have not been loved in return by the people they have loved. And it would not be fair and practilcle on anybody's part to expect mutual romantic interest.
So don't feel low about it. Destiny can turn things around for you any minute, otherwise you have to wait - and we can not say how long.
Good luck.
2007-02-03 06:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, that's a tough one. I'd find it very difficult to love someone who thought I was fat and ugly, they've obviously got some hang ups there. People who find it necessary to look down on people because of the way they perceive them to look have obviously got some serious insecurity issues and it's been my experience that these sort of insecure blokes are a pain in the a*se and best left alone. If you're not happy with the way you look, then why not start an exercise regime to feel better about yourself, but don't do it for some silly bloke who's probably got a chip on his shoulder anyway.
2007-02-03 04:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Paradox 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Losing weight might help. As for being ugly, well beauty is in the eye of the beholder so maybe you're going after the wrong guy.
2007-02-03 04:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're obesessed over this guy. Why would you want a guy that calls you fat, and ugly anyway? It isn't going to happen. For your mental health, just move on.
2007-02-03 04:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by Nerds Rule! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want a guy who thinks you're ugly?? Find someone who can see past your looks to the great person that you are.
2007-02-03 04:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by Chels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be fantastic in the sack! Once the lights go out, we all look the same! No , that's awful ,I'm joking. I'm joking! Why love someone who doesn't reciprocate? Keep fishing!
2007-02-03 04:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Mike Oxard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a different one.sheesh if he calls you fat and ugly i wouldnt even bother
2007-02-03 04:30:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you feel fat and ugly thats how they will see you
get confidence
and then KNOW your not fat and ugly
your big and beautiful
and they would be lucky to have you
2007-02-03 04:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by missk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you need to love your self first and KNOW that your geourgious and not fat. and maybe to help the wieght issue, set a goal and actually work for it. exersize more often, eat healthier, ect.
2007-02-03 04:30:32 · answer #9 · answered by cutie.sweetie.ellie. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop eating for 2 weeks. You'll loose like thirty pounds.
Face doesn't matter to guys. All they care about is ***...
2007-02-03 04:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋