do you think they is ready for a baby
2007-02-03 04:03:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
no way. are they married? do they both have jobs? who owns the house? who has the degree? how old is she? does she live with her parents? can they afford preschool, daycare, or will she be a stay at home mom? how will they be paying for baby?
2007-02-03 04:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by DumbBlonde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think so. Let them get married and live together awhile before they bring a baby into the world.
They should spend some time just enjoying eachother before having a baby too.
Tell Trina and Todd that if they are thinking of having a baby, they should get married. They are after all in love, right??
2007-02-03 04:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by bluegrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. they need to experience their life together. A baby will bring stress on a relationship. Tell them to go out have all the fun they can... There will be time to have kids after they are married and have all the things a child will need. Like a house to call home, a job to support the house and themselves, a bond that no one can break first. Then add children.. Good luck!!
2007-02-03 04:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can answer this question except them! It all depends on the people and the relationship, if they really do love each other and are ready for the responsibility then yes I think its fine they have a baby! But they need to make sure they are financially and emotionally stable!
2007-02-03 09:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by shorty937222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think couples should date for 2 yrs before an engagement is even set. You really have to take things slow and get to know one another. I was with someone for a 2yrs and thought i was absolutely in love and knew everything there was to know then found out he had been cheating for the past couple months. Sure we worked things out but we went through hell first. A child is something happily married couples should share it takes patience, love and lots of compromises!!
2007-02-03 04:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only they know if they are ready for something like that. i don't think anyone is ever ready for a baby. i just found out that my boyfriend and i are going to have a baby...we've been together almost two years...and we're still not ready. it was a surprise and it's forcing us to grow up very quickly. a baby is something they need to talk about and think very hard about because babies do not ask to be brought in to this world and they deserve parents who are going to be good to them.
2007-02-03 04:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Lucy ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Tell them to never procreate! 7 months is a short time to decide on whether or not they want to be together for the rest of their lives! Grow UP, then start making life altering decisions! Sheesh!
2007-02-03 04:06:21 · answer #7 · answered by madjennyvane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO!! 7 months is not long enough to be able to judge whether or not they will be together for the rest of their lives, and if they have a child together they will be bound to each other whether they want to or not!!
2007-02-03 04:07:11 · answer #8 · answered by ♥shannon c♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on their financial status...to have a baby now in these days, you need a lot of money...especially the hospital bill..is really expensive. it doesnt matter how many months, what matters if you have the money.
2007-02-03 04:40:48 · answer #9 · answered by BUTTERFLY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on how old they are and whether or not they think they're ready.
2007-02-03 04:06:23 · answer #10 · answered by HULK RULES!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋