saw my ex out last nite not sure if he saw me i left coz i stil love him and did not wont a sence of scared to see who he was with he wearing a shirt unlike him .
this is the 1st weekend he hasnt called me up drunk he controls me but it feels sily to split im not gna get funy over silly lil things or him goin out 2 much won to compromise with him but he said mabie he feed up of tryin , but he stil wonts to see how i am and keeps sayin i care tb but i havent he hasnt conatc me for a week will he come back
2007-02-03 03:49:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Food & Drink ➔ Beer, Wine & Spirits
Sweetie he's keeping you on the back-burner for when he can't get anyone else. Is that really how you want him to treat you? Move on and get yourself someone who deserves your love and devotion. First take some time to be alone though, it'll be beneficial to you and your future man that you took the time to be comfortable with yourself.
Good Luck!
2007-02-03 03:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I was married for 17 years, he left for another woman he met on the internet. For months every day I thought of killing myself, he was very controlling and I didn't know what to do without him telling me what to do next. I understand where you are. What helped me was finding 1 thing and deciding to make it my own! that one thing for me was organizing my house, getting rid of the clutter! I know this might sound simple, but it was all consuming! I joined http://www.freecycle.org and gave away all the things we (at first) no longer used, later I gave away things I could not bear to look at any longer! each day I checked my e-mail and asked for some things that were being offered that I thought I could use including some nice clothing since I had lost over 70 pounds from the depression. As far as if he will come back or not I don't know, but if he does he will find a more interesting individual, and may think twice about what he lost, or become more in liove with the new person.
2007-02-03 04:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by nh_cherokee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This doesn't sound like love. It sounds like a habit, and probably an addictive relationship. That's when people stay together because they can't imagine another situation. My advice, lose the drunk (even if you get drunk too). It may be that you 'enable' each other, that's when you're comfortable with each other because you allow or encourage each other to a get drunk or high or whatever you used to do together, but that's just a blind route to trouble. Get on with your life, don't answer his calls, don't frequent the places you used to go with him, let a new life happen to you. You will be much happier once you grow beyond this situation.
2007-02-03 04:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy or lady,something like this all feels the comparable way! Its been a while experience i've got considered her till the different day. my heart raced and that i became so flustered,i could no longer talk yet in basic terms ask your self how she became into.yet how issues became out between us(no longer my fault), I wish her nicely. I say this simply by fact she had her daughter call me after 6 months to be sure how i became into doing. And yours might do the comparable quicker or later.
2016-10-01 08:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if he's controlling you, you don't need him anyway. I was in a relationship like that years ago, so I know how hard it is to get over him. Just focus on going out and having a good time with your own friends. It will take some time to get over him, but it's the best thing you can do for yourself.
2007-02-03 04:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the relations of you both and not that easy to be forgotten and left to live separately.generally the women think mentally and men physically in relationships.So women feel more and get into depression. Still if you feel he is good to you in all respects you can come down littlle and pacify things for an amicable settlements. But never take decisions while in drink.Be wise
2007-02-03 08:46:57 · answer #6 · answered by subramanyam b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know how it feels to miss someone,my ex left me and our son a month ago for the 2nd time,the first time he kept in touch and asking how i was,this time i told him not to as i need him out my life for good to get on and make a new life for me and our son.It`s hard because i do still love and miss him but out of sight out of mind and all that.
I think you just need to move on,it sounds as though he`s just keeping you waiting around incase things don`t work out like he wants them to,i think thats what my ex did first time round and i should never have got back with him as it`s just as hard if not harder the 2nd time round.
Just got out and try your hardest to forget him and it will hurt if you see him with someone else,i`m dreading this happening to me,but your not together any more and both need to move on.
2007-02-03 04:07:50 · answer #7 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's a scumbag lass, leave him alone....For good!.
Not what you wanna hear but its best advice and its free.
Get a new guy and you'll forget him and feel better about yerself, and then your self esteem will rise, memories of him will stop and you will be free of his emotional turmoil.
in short, dump him, get new bloke, feel better and live again!
Respect to you.
2007-02-03 04:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by confused 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. He's gone. Get on with your life. Also get yourself a copy of Gloria Gaynor's "I will Survive", and play it to yourself at least five times a day, until you heve gotten over it.
2007-02-03 09:41:34 · answer #9 · answered by Ghostrider 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not entirely sure. But I can totally understand why you put this in the beer, wine and spirits section - have you maybe had a little too much??
2007-02-03 04:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by Away With The Fairies 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋