make sure to bring up i am married and happily -he says he is a lucky guy.should i feel guilty about innocent flirting?
2007-02-03 03:05:32 · 14 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm having the same problem as you too. I think you need to ask yourself this question, are you starting to have a crush on your co-worker? or it is really harmless flirting? If it is really just harmless flirting, why does it leads you to even ask this question? I'm not trying to judge, but I am in the same situation. If you are infatuated with this man, I think you need to slow things down a bit and not send him the wrong signals. It could lead into very dangerous grounds if he read your signals wrongly and try to make a move on you.
2007-02-03 03:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by isabella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, flirting is not innocent and it is not without sexual undertones. You are married and should honor your vows. The way you describe this guy ("hot" etc) tells me you are walking close to the edge of the precipice. Looks lead to thoughts, thoughts lead to action, and action leads to disaster. What's worse, if you do fall you can absolutely count on this guy blowing you off and counting you as another notch on his dick stick.
2007-02-04 05:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by fenhongjiatu1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is not "innocent" when you're married. Would you feel comfortable with your husband flirting, with a "very hot, charming woman"......Probably not.
2007-02-03 11:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by Mommy of 3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you said this man is hot, so I would assume that means you have feelings for him. That being said, I would be careful...if he starts being all you think about, even more than your husband, I would start avoiding him. You do have a husband, not just a boyfriend, after all, and you've made a lifelong commitment to this man...just remember that, and be careful.
2007-02-03 12:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by sunflower 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's any thing wrong with innocent flirting, just as long as it stays ''innocent''. Respectfully, you did tell him that you were married and that was an honest thing to do.
2007-02-03 11:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by Cricket 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really but if the guy has other intetuions & u feel or c that's he taking libert'ys or asking pesonal quetions u should stop ok u don't want other's tell ur man that they think ur cheating . flirting can lead u into trouble.
2007-02-03 11:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by Brittfren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the flirting "stays innocent."
To be honest, if i were your husband i would be quite...pissed. It's a man-thing - jealousy etc.
2007-02-03 11:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by vico 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if it stops at innocent flirting then you should be OK.. just watch out that you do not develop more feelings for him!
2007-02-03 11:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by gone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dirty skank bag why would u wana cheat on ur husband u whore either leave ur husband or stop ****** about with this other nonce. u obviously want each other 4 a quickie in ur lunch break but while ur sitill married u slut mutt keep ur hands 2 urself. ur husband doesnt think 2 highly of u in bed either, thats why he comes 2 c me. i hope u dont have kids coz they will turn into slags like u soon
2007-02-03 11:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by urmum7 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
That isnt wrong... You're just having fun!!!
As long as nothing further happens, then its fine..
life is for love AND fun!
2007-02-03 11:09:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋