Why am I always the last one?.......I feel like I'm gonna cry...?

Question

I'm always the last one with everything, I'm the youngest, shortest, skinniest, lightest, last one to get my period, and I'm sick of it.
I only weigh 64 pounds, at 5"0, but it's not my fault, I eat normal, but I just don't gain, I am 14 years old. I'm sick of people saying are you anorexic, or how much do you weigh, or can I carry you, I don't want to gain any weight, but I don't want to lose any either, anyways my point is am I skinny, fat, very fat, or too skinny, or normal?

Answer 1

@ 64 pounds you are what I call concentration camp skinny!!!

You need to go see a doctor and be put on a weight gaining program.

You should be atleast 95 pounds.

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Answer 2

Oh I feel for you. I was always last last last. 5 ft and lightweight. Same comments from people, always babied or looked down on because of size, last to get my period ( 16 and a half) but let me tell you something..it may not be much of a comfort for you now but, I am now 36 years old. I am not the lightest anymore and Im still the shortest but I am the happiest because it isnt about what you look like, there is so much more in life.
Dont worry about things like that.
You for ME at least are normal, everyone else isnt ;)

Answer 3

I'm the same way. I'm 14 years old and I weigh 95 pounds. To tell you the truth you should gain just like 15 pounds, and i know it is hard i've been trying to gain weight for a long time... during the summer i got up to 101 pounds! i was very happy. But until you get to where you want to be just say that you want to stay just the way they are and that you would rather be you than some fata ss like them. you will probably gain weight when you get older anyways.

Answer 4

I can understand how you feel...

But why bother about what other people say? The point is to be healthy, and to be happy about yourself. If you're comfortable, I don't think you should try to live up to some fool standards projected by some idiots who haven't seen real humans for a long time.

If you're not well, get help. Ask your parents. (This is important, you know) Your parents are going to be the only people who really care at the end of the day.

If all this gloom, is however, the result of indigestion or an F in maths, cheer up! We've all been through it!

Answer 5

Well I would love to be able to eat whatever I want, though I am sorry people pick on you. Every single person gets picked on for something, it took me a long time to realize that. also it is healthier to get your period later, the later the less likelihood of illness.
Life hands everyone certain things to overcome, how you deal with it is the trick. There are so many ignorant people that say so many stupid things, it's on them not you. Keep your chin up and be yourself, it's all you can really do in this life. :)

Answer 6

i'd not flow alongside with the plans if each body isn't in touch. i ought to cancel out on each man or woman. purely because your boyfriend and chum a million and her boyfriend don't love chum 2, does not mean you ought to maintain on with them and this actual does not mean that they ought to anticipate you to do what they decide on you to do. in case you care about chum 2 and she or he treats you want a real chum in spite of ways stressful she is, then she would not should be betrayed. What you adult adult males decide on to a thanks to do is tolerate one yet another AND spend time one after the different in the journey that they could't get alongside. Do issues with chum 2 on my own and do issues with chum a million and your boyfriend one after the different. Thats all you ought to do, yet do not brag about the plans or events to at least one or the different. yet on account that each thing has already been planned out, i'm assuming, then chum 2 ought to flow jointly which includes your summer plans besides and your friends will purely ought to indure it or they could leave in the journey that they dislike her a lot. commence questioning and make judgements for your self, chum a million and not in any respect even your boyfriend have the right to rigidity you into doing something you do not decide on to do and in the journey that they finally end up leaving you or turning their backs on you because you nonetheless decide on to proceed to be friends with chum 2, then THEY we employ extremely your friends to commence with besides.

Answer 7

Your worrying to much about what people are saying. Its confusing you as to what you think of yourself. Decide if YOU are happy with yourself and if your Dr. says your healthy, then you have nothing to worry about. People (especially kids) will look for anything they think you may be sensitive about and use it to tease you. Have confidence in yourself, not doubts.

Answer 8

God! I feel so guilty now for worrying about Global Warming, Cancers, Starvations, World Terrorism, Drugs, Street Crime etc... I feel awful not realising that there were bigger problems out there like yours. I really feel sorry for you. How do you cope with your issues?

Answer 9

oh lucky you my girl.. i always want to be so cute and petite like you .. so it is bless for you to have petite body..
don't worry you will grow -up trust me 3 or 4 more year.. if you take care what you eat.. you will be the most sexiest and prettiest compare with the other or your sisters

Answer 10

everyone is different

be whatever you want to be


normal person